Chapter 400 Big Man

Yu did not stop King Fei from introducing himself. When King Fei talked about Zong, he looked at the deleted exhibition contemptuously and said, "Have you finished it? What a lot of nonsense!" He glanced at Xia thought gently, "Who are you, Qiu Xufeng?"

Xia wants to talk. The afterglow of his eyes found an acquaintance in the distance. He turned his head and saw that it was Mei Xiaolin. Mei Xiaolin also found Xiaxiang and waved to him happily.

Xia wanted to stand up and said to Fei concubine with a smile, "Examp with all, I turned around and said to Gu Yu, "Actually, you are quite energetic, but you don't want to release it.

Without waiting for Gu Yu to say something, he went away.

Gu Yu sat for a moment. Seeing that King Fei was still looking at her, he said coldly, "I heard that you have ever pursued Fu Duoduo? Don't you think about it, how could Duoduo like you? She just likes Xiaxiang, who likes netizens, and she won't like you.

King Fei's face changed a few times, as if he was a little afraid of Gu Yu. Finally, he put up with it and said with a smile, "Men pursue women. If they don't work hard, how can they know it't work? If every man sees the woman he likes and is too timid to pursue her, won't the women in the world be like you and can't get married?

Gu Yu was told that he was wrong and suddenly stared at King Fei: "It is precisely because there are too many men like you in the world that many women would rather be single

Xia wanted to come to Mei Xiaolin and found that there was a young man of her age on her right, with a pale face. She only glanced at him and looked away as if he didn't exist.

Mei Xiaolin asked Xia to sit on her left. Then introduce him to the young man on the right: "Introduce a car, my brother Mei Xiaomu. Xiaomu, this is the Xiaxiang I often talk about

Mei Xiaomu smiled reluctantly, with a look of arrogance that refused people thousands of miles away. He took the initiative to stretch out his hand, shook it gently with Xia, and immediately separated, and said, "Wei Hui, Director Xia."

Xia wants to ignore Mei Xiaomu's attitude and don't care. He doesn't look up at him because he is a prince, and he doesn't hum to beg him. Indifference is his attitude, and he can deal with it calmly.

He smiled and said, "It's a pleasure to meet you, Mr. Mei

Mei Xiaolin saw that Mei Xiaomu was holding an airs and said dissatisfiedly, "Xiaomu, Xia is my good friend. If you don't respect him, you just don't respect me."

"Sister, can you speak more carefully? He is him, and you are you. How can you be confused? Mei Xiaomu did not dare to show his attitude in front of Mei Xiaolin, but he also refused to bow his head. Your words are easy to make others ambiguity, as if he is who you are! I heard that he is married, sister, please take care of yourself.

Mei Xiaomu's last sentence was very heavy. According to Xiaxiang's speculation, Mei Xiaolin should be angry. Unexpectedly, she just smiled indifferently. He said, "I'm not afraid of the shadow. What am I afraid of? You are my brother. I won't explain it to you or scold you. If it's someone else, I'll have to scold him if I don't slap him in the face

Mei Xiaomu looked at Xia Xiang again and asked, "I heard that you and Qiu Xufeng also have a good relationship?" Since you and my sister are friends. You shouldn't get close to Qiu Xufeng

Xia wanted to laugh: "Mr. Mei seems to be too broad-minded. It's not your turn to say something. You and I don't seem to have any friendship. Do you talk to me in a commanding tone or in a consultative manner?

Mei Xiaomu was furious by Xia's disapproving attitude. Originally, he wanted to get angry. When he thought about it, he felt that he had no reason to ask Xia to think about anything, so he said to Mei Xiaolin dissatisfiedly, "Sister, what kind of friend is he? He came all the way from Yanshi to attend Qiu Xufeng's wedding, which was obviously a flattery to the Qiu family!"

Mei Xiaolin ignored Mei Xiaomu and said helplessly to Xia, "Did you see it? I used to think that the Qiu family was not as good as the Mei family, but now the gap between my brother and Qiu Xufeng is getting bigger and bigger. Xia thought. Can you help me ** Xiaomu? He is too proud now.

Mei Xiaomu sneered at Mei Xiaolin's statement, but said nothing.

Xia wanted to shake his head: "I have a good background and a huge family. In addition, my own conditions are also good. He is also handsome, and it's normal to be a little arrogant."

After listening to Xia's words, Mei Xiaomu looked faintly complaid.

However, Xia thought continued to say, "Everyone has self-esteem. Although it is inferiority from excessive respect, it becomes inferiority, but because everyone likes to be self-centered, they regard what is outside as a proud capital. In fact, there is no need for many descendants of big families to be arrogant. Arrogance is often a sign of lack of confidence, just like in the officialdom, among officials below the department level, arrogant is often the most. Once you reach the hall level or above, because you have strong strength, you have basically developed an approachable temper. The higher the identity, the more easy-going it will be. On the contrary, easy-going is not to reduce your status. On the contrary, the more easy-going you are, the more you can show whether a person has cultivation, quality and confidence.

Mei Xiaomu's face was pale, and he glared at Xia. I wanted to refute, but I couldn't speak.

Mei Xiaolin was so happy that she couldn't straighten up with laughter. "Why are you laughing so happily? Mei Shengping's voice suddenly sounded.

Xia wanted to look back. Mei Shengping stood behind him with a glass, and there were two people standing next to him. A person who wants to know Xia is Wu Caijiang. The other man was slightly taller than Wu Caijiang. Tian looked a little fatter and buried his black-framed glasses. The eyes through the back of the glasses can still make people feel a little strict.

Xia wanted to be slightly shocked. This man's eyes are so sharp. Is it the reason why he has been working in the Commission for Discipline Inspection all year round?

Xia thought was really right.

When Mei Shengping saw Xiaxiang, he nodded slightly and said, "Come on, Xiaoxia, introduce, Fu Yuanzhi, deputy of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection

Then he pointed to Wu Caijiang with his hand: "He doesn't need to introduce, does he?" He said that there was no need to introduce, or said Wu Caijiang's identity, "Wu Caijiang, Vice Minister of Education."

Fu Yuanzhi should be Fu's family. Xia smiled respectfully and waited for Fu Yuanzhi to take the initiative to reach out. If the deputy secretary of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection is not also the secretary of the Secretariat. As a ministerial-level cadre, since Mei Shengping did not specifically point out, the current Fu Yuanzhi should be equivalent to the level of the governor of Yan Province. At the level. He is one level higher than the deputy department of Mei Shengping and Wu Caijiang.

Fu Yuanzhi slowed down, then slowly stretched out his hand and said, "Xiaxiang." I heard Caijiang and Shengping say that you were a young man with vitality and energy. Young people, it's good to be energetic and motivated, but it's better to master a degree. Energetic is because of youth, and energy requires wisdom

There is something in Fu Yuanzhi's words. Xia thought that he was afraid that it had something to do with his approach to the Mei family and the Qiu family, and he would not have a good impression of himself. Although the Fu family and the Wu family are at peace on the surface, they have an average relationship with the Mei family. But they will also attend the wedding of the Qiu family, and walk with Wu Caijiang and Mei Shengping. In general, everyone still needs to maintain the appearance of peaceful coexistence.

The entanglement between several major families, does Xia want to be in it? But it often backfired. He approached Mei Shengping because he worked in the provincial party committee. Because of Lian Ruohan's relationship, it is also possible to contact Wu Caijiang, as well as work and cooperate with Qiu Xufeng. Although the relationship with the Qiu family is not very good, it is not very bad. In this way, it is normal for Fu Yuanzhi not to have a good impression on him.

Xia wanted to reply respectfully: "Thank you for Secretary Fu's teachings. When I go back, I will take it as my motto and keep it in mind.

Wu Caijiang smiled directly behind Fu Yuanzhi and nodded secretly to Chaoxia.

Fu Yuanzhi had nothing to say, and ignored the meaning of Xia's words. He turned around and said hello to Mei Xiao and Lin. Xia Xiang stepped forward and said to Wu Caijiang, "Hello, Minister Wu

Wu Caijiang didn't know who he intended to tell. He patted Xia Xiang on the shoulder affectionately: "What's your name, Minister Wu? It's too out of sight. Just call me Uncle Wu. By the way, Ruohan is also back. She is at home. Would you like to go and see her?

Lian Ruohan's father is also in the capital. Xia thought about it and still avoided it. I'm afraid Wu Caijiang can also guess that he sent Lian Ruohan back to Beijing. What he just said just said deliberately, and laughed: "I have to sit with Xu Feng at night. I'm afraid I don't have time, so

"I will stay in the capital for another day tomorrow. I have something to discuss with you. Wu Caijiang deliberately appeared in front of Fu Yuanzhi and Mei Shengping to show that the relationship between him and Xia Xiang is very shallow. Of course, Xia Xiang also knew that Wu Caijiang did not want to lift him, but took him as a fulcrum and deliberately to pry up the relationship between him and the Mei family and the Qiu family.

How can Mei Shengping not understand Wu Caijiang's thoughts? He smiled and said to Mei Xiaolin, "Xiaolin, last time Xia wanted to send you back to Beijing, you didn't say anything, so you let him go back to Yanshi. This time he came to the capital again. As a native of the capital, you have to do your best to the friendship of the landlord, don't you? Take time to spend time with Xiaoxia tomorrow. At least you are also colleagues, and the cooperation is very pleasant.

Xia thought was a little helpless. The open and secret struggle between the family took him as a little unbearable. Just as he was about to refuse the invitation of the two families, he heard a slightly old voice behind him: "Caijiang, Shengping, you seem to have forgotten one of the most important things, that is, Xiaxiang is our Qiu The guest is a guest of Xu Feng. He should be arranged by the Qiu family. How can he go with you? Isn't it a joke that our Qiu family is stingy?

De, the big shots appeared one after another. Xia wanted to quickly look back and saw a person standing behind him. He is tall, slightly fat, and his face is red. At first glance, he looks a little like Qiu Xufeng. You can guess without introducing him. It must be Qiu Xufeng's father.

Xiaxiang shouted respectfully: "Uncle's parents

Although Wu Caijiang wanted to attract Xia Xiang on the surface, he would not lose his manners, so he introduced for the two: "Minister Qiu, this is Xia Xiang, Director of the Information Department of the General Office of the Yan Provincial Party Committee. Xia thought. This is Qiu Renli, Minister of National Security.

The last time Xia wanted to tell Qiu Xufeng that someone was following him in the national security department of Yan Province, he guessed that the Qiu family had someone in the national security department, but he didn't expect it. Qiu Xufeng's father was the Minister of National Security, which shocked him. In fact, the list of leaders of major ministries and commissions. He also knew a little about it, and thought that Di Renli was Qiu Xufeng's uncle or uncle, but it turned out to be his father.

The Ministry of National Security is a special department and cannot be judged at an ordinary level. Xia wanted to shake hands with Qiu Renli very respectfully and said, "My cooperation with Xu Feng has always been good at work, and Xu Feng is calm and mature. Be cautious, and it turns out that it all comes from the teachings of Minister Qiu.

I just called my uncle because I was not sure who the other party was, and I didn't know the other party's position. Now it's called Minister Qiu as a respectful name.

Qiu Renli was kind and said with a smile, "Why are you called Minister Qiu again? It's out of sight, isn't it? I had heard Xu Feng say about you for a long time, so I deliberately told him to ask him to invite you to his wedding, so that he could take the opportunity to walk around more. Xu Feng said that you are now one of his best friends, and I am very interested. Because Xu Feng's personality is weak, it is not easy to make friends. I haven't heard him say any friends in An County for several years. Now I always talk about you, which makes me very curious about what kind of person Xiaoxia is, and makes Xu Feng always talk about his good? Now that I'm here today, there is a family dinner in the evening. Don't go anywhere. Xu Feng hasn't had a good sit with you yet. If you leave, he will be disappointed.

Xia Xiang was originally specially designed to attend Qiu Xufeng's wedding. If he was really pulled away by the Mei family or the Wu family, the Qiu family would be disgled. The state will not be angry with him. He will also be blamed for not being able to do anything. Xia wanted to answer the demon and said, "I have promised Xu Feng to stay at night. Uncle, please rest assured."

Qiu Renli smiled and said to Wu Caijiang and Mei Shengping, "Caijiang and Shengping will also be there at night, and the young people will have a table. We also have a table, which is not an outsider. If you don't come, you'll see outside."

Mei Shengping and Wu Caijiang looked at each other and smiled, "I will definitely arrive."

After an episode, Xia wanted to sit down again. Mei Xiaomu asked with a dissatisfied face, "You are a director. Why does everyone look up to you?"

Xia wants to shake his head: "In the world, the position is very important, but it is not a decisive role. If you think that the other party's background is not as good as you, the level is not as high as yours and you despise the other party, you will never be able to make friends who sincerely help you.

Mei Xiaomu said disapprovingly, "The fallacy!"

Xia wanted to smile calmly: "It's you who take the initiative to ask me, and I don't take the initiative to pay attention to you. Besides, it doesn't count whether it's a fallacy or not. As a member of the Mei family, why did you just now, Secretary Fu and Minister Qiu? Didn't even talk to you?"

Xia wanted to notice that Fu Yuanzhi and Qiu Renli had a short conversation with Mei Xiaolin just now, but they ignored Mei Xiaomu. Mei Xiaomu was suddenly angry. Suddenly, he stood up and said, "Xia, you, shut up."

Mei Xiaolin was finally angry and reached out to pull Mei Xiaomu back to her seat. He scolded, "If you can't control your arrogant temper, please leave the wedding scene now. No one will keep you, so that you won't lose face."

Mei Navel wood stared at Mei Xiaolin angrily. In the end, he softened, stopped talking, and turned his head to one side.

Mei Xiaolin said helplessly to Xia, "I've been spoiled since I was a child. I really can't do anything about him. I have been looking forward to having a boy since I was a child. As a result, after being disappointed that I was a girl, I gave birth to Xiaomu. Naturally, I spoiled him so much, resulting in his current uninvincible virtue. I'm too lazy to care about him. I think he is hopeless.

Xiaxiang is not willing to express more opinions on Mei Xiaolin's family affairs. As long as Mei Xiaomu doesn't take the initiative to make trouble. He won't pay attention to him, and there is no need to have the same experience as Mei Xiaomu. Thinking of what Qiu Xufeng said before, Xia thought laughed secretly. Presumably, Qiu Xufeng had the same arrogant age as Mei Xiaomu before, but after he was sent to the grassroots level and encountered a lot of resistance in his work, he knew that arrogance and prejudice ultimately damaged only his own interests.

You are arrogant and prejudiced against others. In turn, others will treat you the same way. You fight against everyone with one person's strength, and in the end, you can't think of any other possibilities except for a fiasco.

Unfortunately, many people don't understand this truth, as if they can't show his difference without being arrogant or arrogant. There are two kinds of differences. One is that they are in a high position but approachable, and they are different. They have the ability and have no temper. One is that the position is not high, but the temper is quite different, and the one is that he has no ability and temper. Imagine that everyone is willing to be respected by others. Even without respect, equal treatment will make people feel good. But if you meet an arrogant and awe-inspiring person, even if you are afraid of his authority and show respect on the surface. In fact, deep in his heart, he will also have resistance to him.

Only light and dust can have an impact on the people around you. Only then can others accept you and trust you further. If you always have a superior attitude, you will distance yourself from others, and then gradually move away. A person who can't integrate into the crowd, whether he is an official or a businessman, will pay attention to the end of failure.

Because you don't integrate into the crowd, you can't understand what everyone is thinking.

Xia wanted to look at Mei Xiaomu again and felt that he was really a little pitiful. He was young and insisted on putting on a high posture. If it goes on, I don't know that he is destined to be a pathetic end. There are a lot of princelings. In the end, there are very few people who can stand at the provincial level, and very few people can reach the center. Why? Because the dog part was eliminated at the grassroots level.

No matter how powerful the family is, it can only be limited to one place or one industry. Below, even if you are a prince, the emperor is far away, and the unspoken rules of officialdom must be followed. There are also any first-level leaders. It will not reuse a person who is out of place with other leading cadres. In a way. Qiu Xufeng's ability to be today is also after he went through the most difficult mental journey that he took a gratifying step.

is also a crucial step.

This reminds me of the absurdity of Mei Shengping in those years. It is not easy for him to have what he is today. He is also a person with great perseverance, otherwise he would not have walked to the position of the head of the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee in the officialdom.

Of course, there is also Wu Caijiang. Although some people say that he is hot for three minutes, and some people say that he is not stable enough, etc., it is not easy for him to be at the vice-ministerial level in the capital. On the one hand, if the self-bow can't support the wall with mud, it won't work. If there are really people above who can rise to a high position, then there will not be so many grassroots people. Climbed to the provincial level and the center.

In the huge class of the princely party. There are many people entering the military field, but in the end, there are very few.

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