119: Is he really suitable for me

Of course, Gu Xiaotian had no reason to refuse such a request, and he was very happy, but just as he was about to agree, Shangguan Wanyun interrupted two people next to him. "No," she came to the baby and said gently, "Baby, you are too young. If you want to learn to surf, you have to grow up. You have to be a little bigger!"

Hearing Mommy say this, the baby immediately pouted, "No... Mommy, they want to learn."

Shangguan Wanyun was interrupting and refusing, and Gu Xiaotian immediately stood up - this is a good opportunity for him to enhance his relationship with the baby. He not only teaches him to learn to surf, but also stands on a front with him to "resist" Shangguan Wanyun. He thought of this and laughed secretly, "Wang Yun, I think you can let the baby try it. You can't always In this way, if you protect him too much, you can't let him grow up!"

As soon as she said this, Shangguan Wanyun was suddenly stunned. She felt that as a mother, she wanted to keep the baby away from danger, but from a certain point of view, it did hinder the baby's growth, which was really bad for the baby. After all, the baby was raised by her "single mother". At some times, it is really necessary to have the role of a father to appear, such as Gu Xiaotian letting the baby do what he wants to do, which can't be ignored.

Moreover, this is also an opportunity for the baby. After all, there are not many men who can accompany the baby like Gu Xiaotian.

Thinking of this, Shangguan Wanyun put down her worries, but still pretended to be reluctant, "Then... you have to take care of the baby's safety!"

"Don't worry, that's for sure!"

Speaking of this, Gu Xiaotian arranged several bodyguards to come over and let them change into swimsuits to prevent anything dangerous around the baby.

Several people changed their swimsuits, and Gu Xiaotian gave the specially prepared small surfboard to the baby, asking him to watch himself surf first, and then slowly teach him.

The baby nodded and stood obediently as Gu Xiaotian jumped into the sea, holding the surfboard in his hand, waiting for the moment when the waves would rise. Just as Gu Xiaotian found the opportunity, he straightened the surfboard and jumped deep on the surfboard.

Although the waves are very rough, Gu Xiaotian stood on the top and his body swayed with the waves, as if he was not swinging with the waves, but as if he was controlling the waves!

This made the baby envious, and he couldn't wait until Gu Xiaotian swam from the water.

Gu Xiaotian immediately took the baby into the sea and asked him to hold the small surfboard. When the waves became more turbulent, Gu Xiaotian helped the baby stand on the surfboard.

As soon as Gu Xiaotian left the surfboard, the baby suddenly shouted - he was still a child. This situation made him feel very scared. The previous envy and eagerness to try disappeared at this time, and all that was left was panic! His shouting made Shangguan Wanyun very panicked.

"Don't be afraid, the waves are your enemy and your friend!" Gu Xiaotian shouted at the baby, but the little guy is now scared and can't hear anything at all.

Just as the waves jumped up, the baby was so scared that he wanted to squat down, but accidentally rolled into the water!

Shangguan Wanyun was scared!

Fortunately, as soon as the baby fell in, he was stopped by Gu Xiaotian and took the baby to the beach.

Although nothing happened, the baby was still choked by a big mouthful of seawater, crying loudly on the beach, coughing so violently that his nose and tears flowed out.

"Baby!" Shangguan Wanyun shouted and wanted to rush up, but Gu Xiaotian waved his hand to her hard and asked her not to approach her first.

Gu Xiaotian didn't comfort the baby too much. After he cried enough, he said to him, "Don't you really want to learn to surf? Why are you starting to be scared again now?

The baby hesitated, "It's really horrible. People will be afraid!"

"But if you are afraid of this, do you think you can still be a man?"

"It's really horrible!" The baby doesn't want Gu Xiaotian to laugh at himself, but he is still arguing.

"Think about it, if you feel afraid of a little thing, you are only five years old, and there will be many more horrible things in the future. What will you do then?"

"I..."

"Then do you still want to learn to surf now?"

Hearing Gu Xiaotian ask himself this, the baby didn't know how to answer. In fact, he no longer wanted to learn - he stood on the surfboard and looked at the sea as if he had opened his mouth and swallowed himself at any time. He was really scared, but he didn't want to directly tell Gu Xiaotian not to learn, let He laughed at himself.

The baby secretly glanced at Gu Xiaotian. He didn't seem to have any intention of going down the steps for himself. He was completely forcing himself to give him an answer, which made the baby a little confused and didn't dare to speak.

Gu Xiaotian also knew the baby's concerns. He gently patted the little shoulder, "You are a boy. You have just been very powerful. But if you want to give up, I won't force you. Surfing is not as simple as you think. I was more scared than you when I learned it, and I was drowned several times when I learned to surf. Think about it, if I hadn't persisted at that time, I'm afraid I wouldn't learn to surf now. Do you want to stick to it?

Hearing Gu Xiaotian say this, the baby seemed to feel a little hope, "Uncle Xiaotian, did you fail many times to learn it?"

"Of course, not only surfing, but also I have failed many times when I encountered many things, such as singing and acting. If I hadn't persisted at that time, maybe I would have achieved nothing now. A person will encounter difficulties many times in his life. After all, everything is difficult at the beginning, right? But I persisted. Now think about it, if you don't insist, you don't know what you will do now. Remember, when we learn a lot of things, the only decisive factor is not talent or any other external factor, but ourselves. If we persist, we can win. If we don't persist, we are doomed to fail. How about it? Are you going to persist or give up?

The baby nodded immediately, "I want to hold on!"

Gu Xiaotian is very satisfied with the baby's answer, "That's right. This is a man! In fact, the waves are not as horrible as you think. If you want to 'friend' with the waves, you have to remember that the braver you are, the less scared you will be, and the more timid it will bully you.

"Then the waves are really bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, good and bad!"

When the little guy said this, Gu Xiaotian immediately laughed, "You're right, but it's because of this that we have to overcome the waves!" Take it as your enemy, so that you will have a strong sense of achievement after defeating it.

The baby seems to understand Gu Xiaotian's words, "However, my mommy said not to erect enemies for yourself."

"The enemy will fight with us, and the enemy will chase us behind us, but it is because they chase us that we can run faster, understand!"

"I know!"

Seeing that the baby recovered quickly and happily ran to the seaside with Gu Xiaotian, Shangguan Wanyun had mixed feelings.

Shangguan Wanyun felt that if she had just rushed up directly, she would definitely comfort the baby and ask him not to surf anymore. Then, maybe the baby will not learn to surf all his life. However, Gu Xiaotian's education of the baby is completely different. He does not give comfort and care to the baby, but teaches the baby to become more and more brave. This is the difference between men and women when educating their children.

Including the attitude about the "enemy" just now, Shangguan Wanyun found a great self-confidence and the courage to challenge difficulties in Gu Xiaotian after hearing Gu Xiaotian's views. This is exactly what can't be seen in Hou Yunhai. Shangguan Wanyun hopes that Gu Xiaotian can help Bao more. Bao, let him also learn the ability to dare to challenge and be willing to challenge.

Think about it, it's just a simple thing - learning to surf, but for the baby, it should benefit a lot. Today, these principles taught by Gu Xiaotian to the little guy may benefit him a lot in his future life, especially when he is struggling in the mall, if there is These spirits taught to him by Gu Xiaotian should be able to move forward more bravely.

All this makes Shangguan Wanyun feel the importance of her father more deeply. I'm afraid she will never think of teaching the baby these thoughts. The baby who grows up next to a gentle mother must be a very gentle and kind person in the future. If she wants to survive in the mall, it will be very difficult to say, such a thing. If the baby is only educated by himself, will he appear too weak in the future?

Moreover, although Gu Xiaotian is not a person in the mall, he seems to be well scient in these principles. Compared with it, Hou Yunhai will be ashamed of himself - if he can also think like Gu Xiaotian, I'm afraid he will not fall to this level, and he will not think about progress and settle for the status quo until today. If so People come to educate the baby and don't know what will happen to the baby in the future. But one thing is certain, that is, when the baby encounters a failure, it will definitely be as willing to degenerate like Hou Yunhai, and will not become more and more brave as Gu Xiaotian.

The more she thinks so, although Shangguan Wanyun has not made up her mind to let Gu Xiaotian be the baby's father, at least after comparison, Shangguan Wanyun deeply feels that she can no longer let Hou Yunhai educate the baby. Even if it is not education, she can't make too much contact to avoid the baby from seeing the same.

After a while, Gu Xiaotian came to the beach with the baby who had just been "scooped out" from the water. This time, the baby's water choking was obviously more serious than last time, but the little guy didn't seem to care at all this time. Instead, he became stronger, which made Guan Wanyun felt very gratified.

The baby sat next to Gu Xiaotian and no longer liked to circle around mommy's buttocks as before, but chose to sit next to Gu Xiaotian and talk to him about some "men's topics".

"That's good, little guy, this time it's much better than last time!"

"But I'm still drowning." The baby said a little depressedly, "I'll try it again after a short break!"

Gu Xiaotian nodded with satisfaction, "Actually, you don't have to worry too much. I learned it for a long time when I learned to surf. You are already very good at this level now."

"Is it true? Uncle Xiaotian, you didn't mean to say that. Are you going to comfort me?"

"Of course it's true. I remember I almost died once when I learned to surf!"

"Really?"

"How could I lie to you," Gu Xiaotian squinted and remembered what had happened before. "That was when I first learned to surf, and like you, I was very anxious, because I looked at others rushing well, so I was not convinced. I came to practice by myself while others were resting. At that time, it was already dark, the sea was more rough at night, and the waves were more difficult to control than during the day. As soon as I stood on the surfboard, I felt wrong, because the speed of the water flow was too fast to be controlled, but it was too late for me to come down. !"

The baby looked at Gu Xiaotian seriously and became very anxious, "Then what?"

"At that time, I was not good at surfing. I was just a beginner. When such a thing happened, I was very nervous. The more nervous I was, the more I couldn't control my balance. As a result, I was swept into the sea by the waves. At that time, it was already dark and the sea was also very cold. I couldn't see anything. I wanted to float from the water, but As soon as he came out, he was photographed into the sea by the waves behind him, and he choked a mouthful of water at that time. By the way, choking water is very dangerous, because when people choking water, they will panic. If they want to breathe, the more seawater they will inhale. It's really dangerous. If you encounter choking water, you must stabilize yourself, otherwise choking into more water will only make you more dangerous.

"I know, by the way, Uncle Xiaotian, what happened to you in the end? You haven't told me yet!"

"Of course it's okay, otherwise how can I tell you these things here? At that time, I had a big life. I happened to meet a man who was also surfing. When he saw me flooded, he quickly came to save me. Hey, later, he was severely scolded by the uncle, saying that I didn't know whether to live or die. But I think it's true. Therefore, you should remember that you must pay attention to safety measures when surfing in the future and not stay away from the sight of the wave lifeguards. Although they are sometimes annoyed, only they can save their lives at critical moments!"

"Haha, no?"

"I'm telling you very seriously. However, I was also grateful for that incident. I watched the uncle surf that night and was completely fascinated by surfing. After that, I also encountered a lot of dangers, more dangerous than once. It was from this danger and hardship that I completely fell in love with surfing, and really learned to surf and experienced the fun. Only when you are in danger can you learn new surfing skills by coping with difficulties!"

The baby didn't quite understand what Gu Xiaotian said, "Why?"

"Because when you really feel that you are about to die, you can stimulate all the functions of the body. Think about it, when you only have two choices, one is to die, and the other is to do your best. Only at this time can you let go of all your scruples - the worst result is nothing more than death. If you don't win, it's true There is no chance."

"Well, I seem to understand a little."

"Also, in fact, surfing, like life, can experience a lot of truths in life, just like surfing, we will also encounter many difficulties in life. For example, if you hadn't been flooded by the waves, you probably wouldn't have believed that you would swim so hard, but you were really knocked over by a wave. If you didn't swim, you would die. At that time, when you really climbed to the shore, you would be surprised that you were so powerful! For example, you have never believed that you can work hard to complete a certain job, but if you don't complete that job, the company will close down for it. At that time, you will find that something you once thought you couldn't do is actually not so difficult. If you don't force yourself once, you will never know that you can really do it!"

These words made the baby feel very novel and admire Gu Xiaotian, because Dad has never told himself these truths. In the baby's mind, Gu Xiaotian's image suddenly became tall.

The two of them almost rested and stood up to plan to continue surfing. Shangguan Wanyun waved his hand, "That's all for today?"

The baby didn't agree, "Mommy, it took Uncle Tian two days to learn to surf. I want to learn it in one day, and I want to be better than him!"

Hearing that the little guy was so stubborn, Shangguan Wanyun didn't know how to dissuade him, so he had to go.

Watching the two people get into the waves of the sea again, Shangguan Wanyun felt that her heart was full of mixed feelings - today, she really wanted to thank Gu Xiaotian. She couldn't help teaching the baby to surf and instilled a lot of good ideas in him.

If it weren't for Gu Xiaotian, I really don't know how long it will take for the baby to understand these spirits. I'm afraid I can't teach him, because in the market, women are indeed in a weak position, not discrimination, but the fact, because women's gentleness and kindness make them not "ruthough" enough to a large extent. But for men who want to crawl in the mall, this is a little fatal injury.

Shangguan Wanyun felt that she had gained a lot today. At least the baby had learned a lot. After that, Shangguan Wanyun felt that she had to consider the baby's education.

Before that, she had never felt that her education method was biased, but today, after hearing Gu Xiaotian's education method, she was really worried and felt that she really needed a man to accompany and teach her baby.