Chapter 13 Home Visit

It has been almost a semester to Shushuling Middle School, but Zhu Daidong hasn't made a home visit yet. It's not that he doesn't want to go, but that he doesn't want to disturb the students' families. Zhu Daidong is also a farmer's son. He knows very well what it means for the child's teacher to visit the writer. No matter whether the students' grades are good or bad, the parents of the students will be under some pressure.

Many of the parents of the students in his class are farmers at home. They are very simple, but their eloquence is very clumsy. Zhu Daidong once heard from other teachers and went to the student's home to visit the writer. As a result, his parents stammered and couldn't even say a word. Zhu Daidong also has an experience of this. Thinking that when his teacher came to the writer's visit, his parents were also very nervous for fear of saying something wrong. Therefore, Zhu Daidong usually writes letters, asking students to take it back to show it to their parents, and ask their parents to sign or stamp it before taking it back.

And the content of the letter is also concise. Try not to use rare words, and try to use regular script. Most parents don't read much, as long as they can let them understand what they mean.

In fact, there is another reason why Zhu Daidong is unwilling to do a home visit, that is, the teacher's home visit will bring a burden to the students' home. Rural people are very hospitable, not to mention the children's teachers, so as long as you go home to visit, you must stay and eat. If you don't stay, you will look down on people. In order to entertain the teacher, they will kill the hens who are laying eggs without hesitation and slaughter the fish waiting to be raised for a lot of money. Zhu Daidong asked himself that he could not eat such a meal. Therefore, if there is no special reason, he will never visit the writer. Even if he has to, he will choose the evening, at least he does not need others to entertain him.

But this time it was different. Hou Tianming came to his office early in the morning and told Zhu Daidong that his father Hou Yong invited Mr. Zhu to his home for a home visit today, and he must have dinner at his house.

It is not easy to refuse the parents of the students who take the initiative to invite home visits. Zhu Daidong left Hou Tianming and asked about the situation of his family. It turned out that Hou Tianming's father, Hou Yong, was the deputy director of the Shuling Township Police Station, and his ** mother, Ye Lijuan, was an officer of the Township Family Planning Commission. The reason why he took the initiative to invite Zhu Daidong to do a home visit this time is that Hou Tianming's academic performance and learning attitude have changed significantly recently. Although his grades are still at the bottom of the class, he can pass at least every subject now. To do this, it is already valuable for Hou Tianming.

Because Zhu Daidong was going to do a home visit, Hou Yong and Ye Lijuan returned home early today. Of course, Ye Lijuan bought enough vegetables. As soon as Zhu Daidong arrived at Hou Tianming's house, she had been busy in the kitchen except for the first meeting.

Hou Yong is a transferred soldier. He worked in the Yumuling Township police station for more than ten years, and was not promoted to deputy director until five years ago. Although he has been in the place for more than ten years, he still maintains the style of a soldier, speaks boldly and likes to be straightforward. Although Zhu Daidong has only been working for less than half a year, after talking with him, he vaguely knows why he has been working in the police station for more than ten years. This kind of personality is only suitable for being a soldier, not a general.

Since it is a home visit, of course, the theme is mainly Hou Tianming. His parents are at home. Hou Tianming is like a kitten. After leading Zhu Daidong home, he has been hiding in his room, which is called doing homework until dinner.

"In fact, any student can be educated well. There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach. Of course, the cooperation of parents is also very important. Zhu Daidong maintains such a mentality for any student in the class. As long as he has the opportunity, he will praise the students. If he praises, he doesn't want the capital. Why not? Sometimes an unintentional word can add incomparable confidence to students, and sometimes it is not uncommon for a word to change their fate.

"We will definitely cooperate with the teacher." Hou Yong hurriedly said that as long as the child can learn well and improve his grades, no matter what he wants them to do, he is willing.

"I heard that you often beat and scold Hou Tianming?" Zhu Daidong asked with a smile.

"Well, it's a filial son. If Tianming is disobedient at school, Mr. Zhu can beat him. Don't be responsible for the death." Hou Yong laughed and said.

"Beating and scolding children may not allow him to take the initiative to learn. In fact, I think encouragement and praise are the best means. You should usually be good at discovering his strengths and often praise him from time to time. I believe that Hou Tianming, a student, can definitely catch up with his grades. Zhu Daidong said.

"Encourage and praise? Mr. Zhu, you may already know that I am a career soldier and like to speak with my fists. If I often praise him, won't this boy's tail go up to the sky? Hou Yong looked puzzled. He may be a good hand in solving the case, but when it comes to educating children, he is in front of Zhu Daidong, that is, the level of primary school students.

"You can try to do it. If you don't believe it, you can give yourself a deadline of three months or a month. Maybe the change of the dawn will surprise you." Zhu Daidong said with a smile that in addition to exchanging students' information, home visits must also let parents cooperate with themselves to educate students. Only by doing this can both sides get twice the result with half the effort.

"Maybe I was really wrong before. Since he was in elementary school, he liked to be naughty, and he became more and more naughty. If he is not afraid of blushing, he still left Principal Liu's relationship from primary school to junior high school. Otherwise, I'm afraid he will retake the sixth grade." Hou Yong himself only graduated from junior high school. He didn't expect that his son could not even graduate from primary school now. Although the country implements nine-year compulsory education, middle school can also refuse unqualified primary school graduates.

Hearing that Hou Yong was willing to change his practice, Zhu Daidong was also very gratified. People like Hou Yong must keep his word. As long as he promises, it is a spit and a nail, and there is no possibility of regret.

"It's time to eat. Tianming, come out and help quickly." Ye Lijuan was busy in the kitchen for so long that she finally cooked all the dishes. Although she was cooking in the kitchen, she also paid attention to the conversation between Zhu Daidong and Hou Yong. She could see that Mr. Zhu had no prejudice against her son. Among other things, she was very grateful to Zhu Daidong for this alone.

"Can Mr. Zhu drink?" Hou Yong took out a bottle of 38-degree Xixing wine, which was produced by the city winery, which is already of the best for ordinary people.

"You can drink a little." Zhu Daidong nodded. The old white of 52 degrees can drink two catties. He can drink three catties of the thirty-eight-degree West Star.

Hearing that Zhu Daidong can drink liquor, Hou Yong is happy. He has no other hobbies, just a good mouthful of wine. In the institute, his drinking capacity is also one of the best. Sometimes there is a leader in the bureau, and he is the only one who accompanies the wine. In the unit, drinking is sometimes like a battle. Winning or losing is of great importance, and Hou Yong has made great achievements for the police station in this regard.

But when he met Zhu Daidong today, Hou Yong was destined to encounter Waterloo. He was silent and drank two bottles of West Star wine. Zhu Daidong seemed to be nothing. Hou Yong knew that Mr. Zhu was definitely a master of wine. He suggested changing Lao Baigan from his hometown, but Zhu Daidong had no arbitrary opinion.

Hou Yong's drinking capacity is about one and a half catties. This time, when he met Zhu Daidong, he sacrificed his life to accompany the gentleman. After drinking a bottle of Xixing wine in one catty, he dried another bottle of old white. Now he couldn't support it. After drinking, he said a lot of words. He called Zhu Daidong a brother. I don't know how close he is. But in the end, he didn't know how he went to bed. All he knew was that he woke up the next day and had a splitting headache.

"Lijuan, didn't Mr. Zhu get drunk yesterday?" The first thing Hou Yong did when he woke up the next day was to ask Zhu Daidong. He drank too much yesterday. It doesn't matter if he is unconscious. Don't let Mr. Zhu make a fool of himself.

"No, what else are you talking about wine fairy? I think it's better to call it a wine barrel. Mr. Zhu drank two bottles, and his face was not red and his heart was not beating. Finally, he chatted with Tianming for a long time before he went back. He was not like you. He was as drunk as mud." Ye Lijuan was also secretly shocked by Zhu Daidong's drinking capacity.

"It's better to be young. If I'm 20 years younger, it's no problem to drink another bottle of white dry." Hou Yong was unconvinced. A man can't say no. Especially for drinking, he has never obeyed anyone. He has decided that he will have a good drink with Zhu Daidong next time, and then win or lose.

Hou Yong and Zhu Daidong competed with wine. It should be noted that it would be a failure. Since Zhu Daidong fell outside the county education bureau and injured his head, his drinking capacity has been rising. Until now, even Zhu Daidong knows how much he can drink. He only knows that two bottles of Lao Bai can just stop his addiction...