Chapter 99 Men's Talk

Chapter 99 [Men's Talk] Seeing that Qiao Qiao's father was on the verge of an outbreak, I quickly asked him to walk into the house, and then led him to a room.

This is a study.

Basically, I'm not a scholar, and the study at home is not very useful, but it's a good place to talk about some things.

After Qiao Qiao's father sat down, he took a few deep breaths before his mood stabilized a little, but his face was still ugly.

He stared at me and said, "Chen Yang, what's your relationship with Qiao Qiao!" Before I spoke, Qiao Qiao's father had stared at me viciously and said angrily, "Don't tell me it's a friendship!" Humph, my daughter won't take off her swimsuit in the swimming pool of an ordinary friend's house!" I don't know what to say or what to say.

What else can I say? Admit that there is a super friendship between Jojo and me? At the same time, I also have my own girlfriend... If I say so, I'm afraid no father in the world can stand his daughter being "infected" by such a man... So deny it? Not to mention that this is not in line with my personality, and I am not the kind of person who dares not to do it.

Besides, now that Qiao Qiao's father has identified something, do I deny it to be useful? He pressed the table hard, suddenly stood up, and then slowly walked towards me... Just when I thought I might get a slap in the face, Qiao Qiao's father put his hand on my shoulder.

He pressed me hard, as if he was making a decision. Then he walked away and walked back and forth several times in my study.

Walking, hesitating and thinking on his face.

Finally... "Chen Yang, to be honest."

Qiao Qiao's father took a deep breath: "I'm talking about the girl Qiao Qiao.

I've already hurt my brain."

"Although our family dare not say what a big family is, it also has some foundation. Like a family like ours, whether it is a man or a woman's marriage, it is not so casual.

In your words, you may think that we are a political marriage... Hey! In fact, I don't mean to arrange a political marriage for Qiao Qiao.

Qiao Qiao's father looked at me: "I have only one request for Qiao Qiao. The man she is looking for must be the right person in our family.

If it's an ordinary boy... To be honest, I'm not worried about marrying Joe to him at all.

"Um..." I nodded vaguely.

But I was a little nervous: Why did he tell me this?" It's not that I have a portal opinion, and it's not that I look down on ordinary boys... It's really in this world.

There are some things that you young people don't understand, let alone understand.

He said lightly, "An idiom left by our ancestors is actually very reasonable, but now there are many children who don't understand.

I thought that after watching a few love movies and a few love novels, I thought that love was supreme.

You can ignore all objective conditions.

"Those stories on movies and TV can be fabricated casually, such as the daughter of a rich family falls in love with a poor boy, or the young master of a rich family falls in love with a girl from a poor place... They can unscrupulously advocate that this is love supremacy, advocating the greatness of love, noble... Anyway, It costs money."

Qiao Qiao's father said lightly, "But those little children who don't have life experience don't understand this truth."

I nodded.

He continued: "For example, a girl who graduated from college.

I fell in love with a man with only primary school education.

At the beginning, the two people may have sparked out because of occasional friction... The people in the family may object, thinking that men's education is not worthy of girls... At this time, I'm afraid that the young people around them who have been 'educated' by the love stories will advocate the supremacy of love, thinking that all The two people who organized together were rotten and old and stubborn... I nodded, as if it was indeed like this.

"But in fact."

Qiao Qiao's father curled his lips: "The so-called heartbeat is only temporary. After a long time, even if the two are together, they will slowly find that because of the different educational backgrounds, their hobbies, interests and habits of life are completely different, and even the conversation is very different.

For example, women are highly educated, like to listen to opera, watch stage plays, like to watch ballet... But these, only men with primary school cultural level don't like them.

For example, men like to make noise, like to make noise in public, and like to swear... When the two first met, these were expressions that attracted her personality in the eyes of women, but over time, when the freshness passed, they will feel vulgar.

At that time, even a small action may feel unpleasant.

Actually..." Qiao Qiao's father smiled and said, "There is a saying that 'love can tolerate everything'. In fact, it is also the bullshit made up by writers to fool people.

There is no love in the world that can tolerate everything. Love is very fragile and must be based on a specific environment and conditions... If two people come from different cultural backgrounds, different qualities, different experiences, different habits... then there can be no love, or it will not be It is firm and will break quickly.

This is what I call a door-to-door match. It does not refer to money, but to all other conditions must be met and must be equal to each other.

I admit that he is right, really right, and realistic.

Love movies are love movies after all. I don't say anything about money... The so-called door-to-door right does not only refer to the economic conditions and background of both sides, as well as culture, quality, education from childhood, living habits, etc., must be equal.

For example, in China, it is difficult for a man from the north and a girl from the south to live in harmony.

Even if the two of them have a good relationship at the beginning, this kind of relationship can't stand the test of life. The simplest example is that most men in the north are more masculine.

And the girls in the south are more delicate**.

When such two kinds of people live together, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, especially when the original ** is worn out by the trivialities of life.

Breakup is the inevitable end.

These words are unpleasant, but they are true.

Those who sing the slogan "Love can overcome everything" are mostly Xiaomao children who have not experienced many real feelings.

"Actually..." Qiao Qiao's father said this and said in a different tone, "When I knew that Qiao Qiao was with you, I thought a lot."

"Oh?" I smiled bitterly.

"Of course, you may not understand the psychology of being a father now, because you are not in my position. Maybe in a few decades, you will understand."

He sighed.

A mature and handsome face with a little helplessness: "Joe Joe is too eccentric, and I don't want to hide this... Well, or.

She is weirder than most girls.

Especially her strange... 'habits'."

I didn't say anything - I can't say, "Well, that's right, your daughter is gay."

"So, when I arranged a marriage contract for her, I actually carefully selected it for a long time... You have seen Li Wenjing, a young man.

He is excellent... He is excellent in all aspects and has a good family background.

From these terms, he is almost flawless.

And I have to admit that he is a very attractive young man.

Qiao Qiao's father shrugged his shoulders: "But it's a pity that my daughter doesn't like him."

..." I looked into his eyes: "What the hell are you trying to say?" Talk about you."

He said bluntly: "From the time I knew that Jojo was in Canada and with you, I began to think about new problems.

You, Chen Yang, a young man, you... Well, you look pretty good.

More importantly, you and Qiao Qiao can get along well... Of course, the most important thing is the right problem.

"Uh..." I don't think I can speak.

"To be frank, if you were just the same position in China at the beginning, I didn't even have to think about it at all, and I would veto you directly.

Because I won't let my daughter like a person at the bottom of society... It's not because I'm biased against people, but because of those four words... "The door is right."

I sighed.

"That's right, it's the door-to-door.

If you are a man of ordinary status, I need to think too much. Of course, I won't consider whether he can afford to raise my daughter... You see, I'm not short of money.

But what I'm thinking about is whether two people can really live together.

Two people from different social levels live together, eat, wear, use, say and do things together will be completely different.

During the time period, when love is still fresh, you can tolerate the other party, but after a long time... it is inevitable that there will be contradictions.

So, I can accept that you were my daughter's friend when you were in China, but when she is her man, I will be the first to break you up.

He said it for sure, and there was no cover-up at all: "The simplest example is that ordinary people usually have fun when they eat and drink with their friends.

But in our level of ***, communication is a kind of knowledge... If two people come from different levels, sooner or later they will feel that they are not used to each other's living habits.

He is right.

Simply put, Qiao Qiao buys a dress for 8,000 yuan. An ordinary man, who can stand such a girlfriend? OK, or you will say that if she really loves me, she will be willing to live an ordinary life with me.

Then I will tell you that you really don't understand life.

People buy 8,000 pieces of clothes, not to show off, not to be extravagant... It is a habit developed since childhood, just a habit, and has nothing to do with "disgust the poor and love the rich".

She is used to the clothes that will be designed by special designers. When each famous brand comes out with a new model, the merchant will directly inform her of the new style according to the most considerate Vip service mode... In this case, you ask her to accompany you to eat the big stall and accompany you to the night market to buy dozens of pieces of clothes... She doesn't mean that she dislikes that this kind of life is too poor, but she just feels that she is not used to it.

That's all.

I have also heard that there were men and women from the south and the north of China together, and finally broke up. As a result, it was just a simple living habit: southerners like to eat rice, and northerners like to eat pasta.

The two sides do love each other very much, but their living habits are different. In the end, they can't stand such a life, so they can only break up.

If you say, well, I can tolerate eating rice (or pasta) every day for the sake of my love... Then, all I can say is that you don't know life.

What is life? It's not romantic love, that kind of infinitely beautiful illusion of love... Life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea!! I'm a little discolored: "Are you now..." "It's not a problem now."

Joe's father looked at me: "My first reaction is that Joe lives with a man, which may not be a bad thing.

At least she is finally willing to accept a woman... At least it's much better than her living with a woman.

He spoke very directly, so I had to smile bitterly.

"Then I checked you carefully... the man who lives with her.

Finally, I suddenly felt that this might be good news.

Indeed, when you were in China, you were still at the bottom of the world.

But now, you have come out, you have a certain position, you have power, and even this power is not small.

You are very rich now, and you have gradually entered the upper level of the world.

From the point of the door, you are almost completely in line with this point.

There are no flaws... Moreover, you and Jojo are very familiar with each other.

It is possible for you to be together.

He looked at me: "As a father, especially Qiaoqiao's father, after a long headache for her life, I suddenly felt that you were also good.

Although you may not be better than Li Wenjing, you are indeed excellent.

If you can be my son-in-law, this is also a good choice.

He looked at me: "Since the man I chose for her, she doesn't like it.

So the man she chose also meets the conditions in my heart, so why not? I was stunned, completely stunned, took a deep breath, and then said slowly, "Mr. Qiao... Well, Uncle Qiao, do you mean, you want me to be your son-in-law?" Exactly."

He looked at me with a smile, but then frowned: "But there are other girls around you now, which makes me a little surprised... Well, this is an unexpected problem... But in my opinion, the girl named Yan Di is actually a problem. It's not big."