286. Go back
Not only Bai Wenli, but also the Yuxi brothers and sisters smiled bitterly. What can they do? They can only mix it with chopsticks.
I want to spend money again, and I don't want to pay for labor. How can I find such a good thing in the world? Qin Baichuan can only sigh when he encounters such an estimate.
Bai Wenli said his thoughts with deep emotion.
"Bro-in-law, in fact, after the fourth marriage, I'm going to let go.
They have all become families and careers, and they have become the head of the family. I also have my family. I can't put all my center on them. I also have my own ideals.
I'm just thinking about letting them break through by themselves. It's not a long-term thing for you to always take out money like this. There will be times when you can't do it. At that time, your brothers and sisters are still short of money. What can you do?
Let's say something unpleasant. You are just a worker. You can earn a lot of money, but it's very difficult for you to help everyone alone, but they haven't thought so yet. You'd better find a way to wean them.
The word Bai Wenli made Qin Baichuan feel very fresh, but he also understood what his brother-in-law said.
"Actually, I've had this idea for a long time, but I can't stand my mother coming here..."
Bai Xinyi said in the back, "If you don't make trouble, they won't give it. If you don't succeed once or twice, they will stop thinking about it. If you make trouble like this, you will give it once. If you don't make trouble, who will you go?"
Yu Xi patted Qin Baichuan on the shoulder in the back.
"My uncle, I can understand your mood and situation.
However, it is not advisable for you to do this. If you do this for a long time, you can only develop the idea that they rely on you. If you don't have money to go, you don't have money to go, and if your children get married, you don't have money to go.
How much money do you have to support these people? Don't forget that you still have your own home and your own life and work.
Sometimes you are not helping them but harming them. There is an old saying that you can't save the poor.
Poverty is not terrible. What I'm afraid is that people are used to this way of life. You can find a way to make them break this idea, which is also to cultivate their own independence.
Bai Xinyi echoed, "That's right, let's see what my niece said. This is still a child's opinion. Look at the fact that your family is so big that you can't catch up with a child's mind?
I want you to try not to give them money next time. If you want money, you can find a way to earn it by yourself. No one's money is blown by the wind. Look, my brother personally sends sheep to the mainland in order to make some money. How far is it? I heard that if I can't meet someone on the way, I
Bai Wenli said, "Bro-in-law, in fact, don't make things difficult for this. Every time you give less and cry more.
After a long time, they have faded their thoughts. It's not that we don't help. If any of them really encounters an emergency, it's not too late for us to help. The money is spent on the cutting edge.
Qin Baichuan admires this brother-in-law more and more. Such a person looks rough on the surface, but he is absolutely smart.
If you can move from the remaining northern Xinjiang here to the current situation, if you want to say that the little brother-in-law and his brother-in-law are working hard, the head is absolutely good.
"Okay, I'll try it, and I don't know if it will work."
The personality of the people in their own family is still a little different from that of the Bai family, and the situation of the Bai family is also different from that of their family.
He has both parents. Although the old father of the Bai family is still there, the old man is basically not in charge. Bai Wenli is the boss in charge of the family.
As for his brother-in-law's temper, if he is disobedient and dares to stab, he will never spoil them.
He can't. He has parents and brothers and sisters. Although Bai Xinyi is also an elder sister, his wife still protects this younger brother.
Because her younger brother has been helping her in the most difficult time, Qin Baichuan also took a particularly high look at her brother-in-law.
"An uncle, I'll teach you a good way. If there is such a thing next time, you let my aunt come forward. Are you afraid that your wife can't do it?
Auntie, you will be more spicy in the future. You don't owe them. This is the most appropriate thing for you. Don't forget that you are the hostess of this family.
Bai Xinyi smiled and touched her niece's long hair. "Little girl, my aunt didn't love you for nothing. I'll try as you said next time.
Baichuan, if I'm spicy, you can also cooperate properly. I'm not unreasonable, but the scoring situation. They all regard us as a bank, so I have to speak.
Qin Baichuan agreed with a good attitude in the front.
The Bai family is going to have a wedding. Bai Wenli's former friends and friends, as long as they still remember the brother's feelings, they basically came to chase the favor.
Dajun and Li Rui heard from Geng Mei that Bai Wenli also came back, and the two people had already run to Bai's house to help.
When everyone was almost ready to talk, Yu Xi called Li Rui and Da Jun to talk about their own affairs.
Geng Mei and the other women quickly dealt with what Bai Wenli brought.
When Gu Li saw that Bai Wenli brought so many things here, she felt a little distressed for Geng Mei's family.
"Sister-in-law, your family has a lot to get married this time."
Geng Mei said while busy with her work, "Your eldest brother said that there is only one brother left to get married, and he has to do his part as the boss.
The situation over there is not optimistic. The third brother just got married, and he doesn't have much savings in his hand. There is only this little brother left in the family. Even if he works hard, he will do it properly for the fourth brother, which can be regarded as an explanation for our mother-in-law who passed away.
Gu Li sighed, "Sister-in-law, it's not easy for you these years. Our family is Wenyi, the third and the fourth. You are running these weddings. I guess you have earned a lot of money here in the past two years.
Our family said that he will remember the kindness of the eldest brother and sister-in-law all his life, but unfortunately, he is also suppressed by his previous debt and has no energy for the time being.
Of course, Geng Mei knew the huge debt of Bai Wenyi at the beginning.
"Guli, in fact, I also admire you very much. You all know what's going on with our second brother, and you are willing to be with him.
When I talked about you with your eldest brother, I thought you were really not an ordinary woman.
Gu Li sighed, "Sister-in-law, Wenyi is good to me. I think it's worth doing this for him. As long as we work together, the debt can be repaid sooner or later. As long as my man is here, I won't be afraid of anything else."
Bai Haoran hasn't seen this cousin for a long time, but seeing this guy now white and fat, it seems that this second aunt serves him well.
"Haochen, how many points did you get in the final exam?"
Bai Haochen stretched out his tongue and said, "Brother, I'm not as good as you in the exam, but my father said that as long as I try my best. In fact, I don't think that if I don't study well, there may not be a way out. You see, my uncle is very good. I will follow my
After Yuxi finished talking, when he came out of the room, he heard his little brother say such a word and stretched out his hand and knocked him.
"Shoot, if you don't study well, you will make excuses for yourself.
Bai Haochen, let me tell you, my father doesn't read much, but he doesn't read any less books than us.
My father is still studying at such an old age. What's the reason why you can't study well? Let me tell you. If you don't study well next time, I'll ask my eldest brother to practice you well. RS