Chapter 170: Position

Hearing what he said, Zhang Guilan couldn't tell what it was like. It turned out that she had been careful on this issue, but in the end, there was still a gap between her and Luo Jijun.

And she only thought about why she didn't go on the road of her life, but ignored Luo Jijun's words or his every move. She didn't even find out when there was a gap between the two people because of this.

Suppressing the bottom of her heart, she said, "Jijun, because of Sun Mei's affairs, there are not a lot of rumors outside. Although there is no conflict between us, but because of your injury, there are a lot of other things, such as the conflict between me and your parents, and even the two old people in the same family It's a small thing. It's like this at home. Have you ever thought about the reason for this? It is said that getting married and living is not two people, but two families.

Luo Jijun looked at her seriously, "I still say that. I don't care about Sun Mei."

Zhang Guilan nodded, "You don't care about her, but you have heard the rumors outside. Now you feel that I'm doubting something between you, that I'm believing in those rumors, and even being angry with you because of them, right?"

"I just thought so at the beginning, and then I..."

"Yes, later my attitude made you relieved and felt that I didn't believe it, but you didn't know that you had been taboo about this matter in every move and words, not guilty but worried. Do you know what this means? Because you also know in your heart that this matter is not good and the impact is not good. Zhang Guilan didn't want to quarrel with him. If you don't feel guilty, how can you worry about that? Ask yourself, do you really feel guilty at all?

"I'm worried about how much you think. What kind of self-conceitment do I have?" Luo Jijun was anxious when he heard that he was wronged.

Zhang Guilan motioned him not to worry, "If you worry about how much I think about it, it doesn't mean that you know that any wife will think too much after listening to it. It can be seen that this is not that simple. You think it's not important to have me in your heart. Even if you have contact with Sun Mei, I shouldn't have much contact with her. What if this happens to me? I spread rumors with other men. I told you that we are in a normal relationship. Even no matter how people outside spread it, they still come into contact with each other. Will you accept it?

Zhang Guilan's rhetorical question made Luo Jijun silent.

"You can't accept it. How can I accept it as a woman? Then I don't think too much, and I still want to understand you? You think I'm too strong. I'm just a woman. A woman who needs her husband's love. The body is made of meat, not made of iron. It will hurt as if you are injured.

Zhang Guilan felt that it was too sweet to tell him at this time, but this was also her real feeling. She didn't understand why everything became taken for granted when it came to her. It didn't matter. Is it different from him? She admitted that Luo Jijun cared that she had in her own heart, but she really couldn't agree with him.

A woman who loves a man does not mean that she has to pay for this man all the time, or even make the other person take it for granted. Over time, he will turn a blind eye to such efforts.

As the old man said. If you help a person, the first time you use a lot of effort, the second time you use eight points of effort, he will not thank you, but will be friends with the person who used five points of effort, and you will be hated.

So at any time, people should leave a bottom line for themselves.

Zhang Guilan really understands this theory at this time. Maybe what the military sister-in-law has to do is to understand the other party, but it is working at home, which does not mean that she is salty. In addition, Zhang Guilan can tolerate anything, but this alone can't.

"Guilan, you're right. On this issue, or not to this issue, it's me. I've always thought that you understand me, so I never said hello to you or even explained what happened. What you said today made me realize my selfishness. I'm here to say to you. I'm sorry." Luo Jijun raised his head, serious and serious, "I really didn't think much about Sun Mei. I just took the opportunity to see who did the small move after knowing the rumors outside. The team was about to study again, and it was rumored like this in the courtyard. I think someone must have deliberately, so I took this opportunity to explore the bottom. I didn't tell you, and I didn't take rumors seriously. It's my fault to put so much pressure on you. Guilan, tell me what you think today. I know I'm not a good husband, and I also want to know what I have done. Then get rid of all those problems.

"Zijun, you still don't understand me." Zhang Guilan sighed. Is this a substitute hook? I'm not talking about gossip and Sun Mei. I'm talking about your attitude. Do you understand? The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. No matter what you do, I hope you will say hello to me. Whether it's good or bad, I will support you. I think I've always done a good job, and you should see it. But what I do is still to make you feel that I am dispensable. I don't say hello to anything. Life is like your own, and this family is like a hotel, and husband and wife are like strangers.

"Guilan, I'm sorry, I didn't know you would feel this way, I just... just..."

Zhang Guilan smiled bitterly, "Look, you don't even know what kind of excuse you want to make."

If she doesn't understand love, she can accept it, but she doesn't know how to respect each other. She really can't accept this.

"I'll change it later." Luo Jijun promised, "I swear by the honor of a soldier that I will definitely change it."

"Since I'm going to talk about it today, I'll just agree on a few things in the future. If you go to work with Sun Mei's father, I won't make trouble or think too much about it, but I hope you remember that the basis for me to do so is to remember your identity. You can try your best to do your job well, but you can do things outside of work. I hope you can distinguish between public and private affairs. Don't wait until the time comes out, and say that you don't have other thoughts like today. In the end, there was more or less mockery in the words.

Luo Jijun said coldly, "You don't have to say, I won't go to that job."

"This is your business. It's up to you." Zhang Guilan got up and said, "I'm also tired these days. Take a rest early."

Turn around and go to the bathroom.

This conversation did not make Luo Jijun feel relaxed, but became heavier and heavier. Although the work is important, the current contradictions between husband and wife are obviously more important. Luo Jijun never thought that there would be such a deep gap between him and his wife.

When Zhang Guilan came in after washing up, she looked at him and frowned and said, "It's not late. Let's take a break."

"I slept in the afternoon, and I'm not very sleepy now." Luo Jijun and others lay down and didn't dare to move. They could only look at them in a hurry, "Daughter-in-law, come closer, and I can't eat people."

Zhang Guilan smiled and said, "In the summer, why are you so close?"

But his body still moved and leaned against him.

Luo Jijun stretched out his hand and took him into his arms. "How can I be insatiable with such a good daughter-in-law? In fact, I'm stupid. In the future, you can click it directly, so that I won't make you angry.

"You said it well at this time. Why didn't you say it before?"

"Isn't it said that couples fight at the end of the bed? I didn't go to bed before.

What's wrong with this?

Zhang Guilan was amused by him, and the unhappiness in her heart was swept away. She also said everything she had to say. It depends on what Luo Jijun will do in the future. As for the work, she doesn't believe that Luo Jijun can decide by herself, but let's take it one step at that time.

This night, it was not until they went to bed at night that there was a warm scene between the couple. The next day, they were woken up by the sound of the east room. Zhang Guilan turned over and did not love it, but the door was pushed open.

She was so scared that she quickly pulled the quilt and covered her body. She was glad to wear pajamas, but she remembered that she would lock the door next time.

"Mom, what's wrong with you coming here so early?" Luo Jijun opened his mouth unhappily.

Zhang Guilan simply hid in the quilt and pretended to sleep. Guo Ying looked at it and said, "You pulled the wound yesterday. I'll come and see how it's going today. I'm afraid that you will move around and break your leg."

This mess is straightforward.

Zhang Guilan curled her lips and came early in the morning to find bad luck. The good mood of the day was affected.

Luo Jijun's face turned black and his voice was a little louder, "Mom, what on earth are you going to do? Do you still want to listen to the room?

At the beginning, in the countryside, his mother ran to his father-in-law's house to eavesdrop, which made Luo Jijun unable to raise his head in front of his daughter-in-law. Now that he arrived at his own home, his mother was even in charge of the affairs in the room.

"Didn't you keep saying that Guilan's stomach didn't move? Now that we are not allowed to move, what should we do? Luo Jijun tried his best to sit up. Zhang Guilan couldn't pretend anymore. He got up quickly and held him down, but Luo Jijun still struggled, "I don't want this leg, and I don't work. Now I'll go home with you to farm."

"Look at me..."

Before Guo Ying finished his words, Luo Yongzhi rushed in, pulled Guo Ying and walked out, still scolding, "You still care about your daughter-in-law's things like this, do you still want your old face? Come with me now, and don't come out in the future.

"What I want is my son's things, not hers."

"If you say one more word, I will beat you to death."

Luo Yongzhi's threatening words were used, and it was finally quiet outside, and there was the sound of opening and closing the door.

"Do I want to deliver it?" Of course, Zhang Guilan doesn't want to go.

"No." Luo Jijun didn't understand. It was his mother who was still thinking about the TV and refrigerator. "In the future, when we have children, let your parents come and take care of them. In the future, I will give them half of my annual salary, and they don't have to come over."

ps:

Such a diligent person, please support him, three times a day, right? Or is it better for people to adjust their appetite day by day? RP