Chapter 141 Family Rules

Li has become a family, and even a famous family, because of Li Mengze's generation. Future generations have recognized this and recognized that he is the undisputed founder of this family. The Li family is actually composed of four families, namely, the "Li" family of Li Mengze, the "Li" family of Li Yudong, the "Wang" family of Wang Zhaoyun and the "Xu" family of Xu Peng. Among them, the Li family is the core of the Li family and the most important family strength. The Li family took 18 children as the second generation of guardians and entrepreneurs, and the descendants of the following generations also came from the 18 children of these nine mothers. According to statistics, among the heads of the Li family in the past dynasties, there are the most members from the Lin Yongqi family, but less than one-sixth. The children and descendants of the rest of the grandparents have also become the patriarchs of the family. From this point, we can see the difference between the Li family. Within the Li family, there is no real direct lineage, no so-called collateral lineage, children are not separated, and few father and son or father and daughter have become two generations of patriarchs in succession. Even if the surnames of the members of the Li family were not unified later, the family leaders of the past dynasties all had the surname "Li", and the family leaders had a direct blood relationship with the founder of the family, Li Mengze, which is exactly the same as other families.

The reason why a family can continue to exist is that in addition to group interests, it is a strong blood relationship. The so-called families are special interest groups composed of blood-related people. The Li family has been in decline for a long time, and there have been many crises during which, but there are always people who stand up and save the whole family in danger. This shows how deep the Li family's background is! People have found a special phenomenon that there are no examples of huge property in the Li family. Even some daughters-in-law who come from famous families and have hundreds of millions of wealth, their descendants do not have direct property inheritance. Either they give up the property inheritance right of their mother's family or directly transfer the property to the name of the head of the family. For the common property of the family; and those family members who have worked hard to start a generation of business have no private property, which is also a very strange phenomenon, which is inconsistent with many families... All these phenomena are due to the founders of the Li family, who jointly respect and love Li Mengze!

Many of Li's family rules were stolen from other people's homes, just like they stole rules and regulations from other companies and evolved into their own companies. They were completely imitated from other families, which accounted for a considerable part of them, but these family rules are not the most important part, and these family rules It can be modified by successive family patriarchs and core management. At the same time, these regulations are not formulated at the same time, and most of them are supplemented bit by bit. This shows the personality of the founder of the Li family and the difficulty of starting a business! The core of the Li family is the Li family. At the same time, the Li family has more idle people, and more importantly, Li Mengze is relatively idle, so the formulation of family rules is mainly operated by them. Most of the other families participate in auxiliary work, but not always. For example, Lu Jing also has more work. But one thing is certain. Before they clearly proposed to establish a family, the Li family has gradually established the family rules. Of course, this is established step by step. To be precise, the family rules of the Li family are divided into two parts. One is the whole family rules of the Li family, which has restrictions on the whole family. The second is the family rules of the individual Li family, which are only binding on the members of the Li family, and others are "at their own". Li Mengze has indeed created unique family rules for future generations. With the help and inspiration of women and friends, he has created unique Li family rules, especially the Li family rules. Every time they encounter a situation, they think about it in detail and record it as the basis of later behavior. At first, Li Mengze did not expect that he would be the founder of a huge family. He just wanted to spend his life happily with women. However, with more and more women, from four to five, to seven, so that the later eight and finally nine, he had to consider the combination of family. . Later, when the children were born one by one, especially a pair, he couldn't be careless. Since he began to invest and start a company, there have been a series of problems waiting for him to solve. With the passage of time, there are more and more and more things he has encountered. Family members have begun to think seriously about future generations. A sense of responsibility naturally grows in everyone's heart. They understand that there are many things that they can't do. It can't be solved, and it can only be solved by their generation. If it is not solved well, the whole family and the family may fail, and even cause infighting and disputes between family members, turning their relatives into enemies, and the whole family may be "destroyed" in an instant! Therefore, women attach great importance to this matter, and several women who love work have also put down their work and give advice to their men...

As the saying goes, the state-owned law, the family has family rules, and the country's legal system is universal. People in all scope must respect and abide by it. Once the violators are found, they will be severely punished. The family rules vary from family to family, and the rules of small families may be very strict, but after all, The scope is too small, relatively single, and there is nothing to pay attention to, but a family, especially a family that has become a family, cannot be without a rule and regulation that the whole family respects. Generally, family rules and regulations are often stricter and more targeted than laws and social morality. In most cases, family regulations are compatible with national laws and regulations, and do not violate national laws and regulations, which is also an inevitable condition for a family to exist; but any family has some "private regulations", no There are forms of words, but they must be observed by the whole family. The Li family rules have their own characteristics. Confucius, who is not only compatible with the law, but also often drills the law, has become a unique family rule. In the Li family rule, there is such an explanation, "This family rule takes into account both human and family conditions. If there is any conflict with the national law, it should be implemented in accordance with the family regulations. Violators It can be seen that Li's family is not based on the law, but even violators are just expelled from the family, and there seems to be no too strict punishment!

Because it is related to the individual and due to the unique experience of the individual, the first rule of the Li family stipulates that "All male members of the Li family must be kind to their women; all female members of the Li must be kind to their husbands." This is a little hidden. The regulations of male members do not say "wives" but only "women". There is a reason. The Li family (especially the Li family) does not oppose polygamy of men (direct members). As long as they do not get married for life, they can live with multiple women who love at the same time, but once there is More than one woman can't get married all her life, regardless of whether there is a woman who leaves halfway or dies. This clan rule is a very special one in the Li clan rule, and it is placed at the top of the clan rule! As long as a woman is a male member of the direct Li family, regardless of her origin, whether she becomes a family member in the legal sense or not, even if the direct member dies, they have the rights of an ordinary family member. Of course, the punishment for violating this rule is also quite severe, and it will be "expelled out of the family", which will be well enforced in later generations. Especially in the Li family, almost every generation has lustful direct men, and like their ancestors, they are "gentle and affectionate", attracting the life of many women. At the same time, it is these tender women who have made great contributions to the continuous prosperity of the family (especially the continuous overwhelming advantage of the Li family)!

The second rule of the family stipulates that "All members of the Li family should be good-based and righteous to their friends." The Li family's generation of entrepreneurship has been helped by several friends of Li Mengze. It can be said that without them, the Li family would not have developed so smoothly. It would have experienced more twists and turns. Of course, there would be no later Li family. For this reason, Li Mengze was very grateful to Li Yudong and treated them as his lifelong friends. For Wang Zhaoyun, he did not hesitate to risk the world and created a series of exterminations that shocked the whole country. Li Yudong and others knew it, but they did not show gratitude. They were all bloody men. They wished they could avenge their friends in person. It was very gratifying to see that they took such a huge risk. And this is also an important reason why they have not left Li Mengze for so many years and finally decided to form a family together. Li Mengze hopes that future generations will not only remember Li Yudong's deep friendship, but also treat their new friends with righteousness. In addition, Li stipulates that family members are prohibited from bullying. For those who violate this rule, the family will not be given shelter, and serious violators will be punished by expulsion from the family. Li Mengze believes that a family can win the respect of society. On the one hand, it is related to its own strong financial ability, and on the other hand, it is also related to her social performance. Only a family that respects others and treats people humbly can be truly recognized by society!

Article 3 of the Li family stipulates that "property is the property of the family and is not owned by individuals, but all family property is managed by one person." The members of the Li family do not have more than tens of millions of private wealth. Everyone, whether capable or unable to do it, can get enough living expenses from the head of the family. Even if it is used to support women, the head of the family must give "support" from the family property. As long as it does not violate human feelings, he has to pay; of course, it is not allowed to take the family. The family property pays inappropriate expenses, such as a direct male woman raising a small white face outside, which is extremely unacceptable, and the Li family will not agree. Li's direct men have many wives and many rich families, but without exception, they themselves cannot have the right to inherit property, either give up or directly transfer to the common property of the family. There were people who were unwilling to accept this rule. The head of the family did not hesitate to exercise his power and threatened to expel them from the family if they wanted to get married. If they wanted to pass on the property to the next generation, as long as it was accepted by the next generation, the next generation could not be recognized and protected by the family. For this reason, it once caused a fierce conflict with another rich man, but the Li family did not give in at all, forcing the other party to merge its property into the Li family. In fact, she has encountered such a thing since the first generation of the Li family. For this reason, Chen Haili transferred the property her father directly to her husband. Liang Jiayi took the hard-earned money as family expenses, and Lin Yongqi transferred the Donglin Group to her husband's name, but did not pass it on to her biological children. The reason for doing this is, on the one hand, to ensure that Li's industry is unified and not divided. The more important reason is to ensure the fairness and unity of each generation, and no one is superior to anyone else, because they do not get any property support from their father, mother and grandfather's family, so that they can Get along well with other members of the family. This is a very important rule, which fundamentally ensures that the Li family will not have the phenomenon of so-called direct lineage, collateral lineage, especially lineage, and maintains the stability and prosperity of the family. In fact, the direct members of the Li family, whether boys or girls, are a group of poor people. In the family, they have inexhaustible money, but they can't take a penny out, and they can only inject into the family, which has become a strange phenomenon in the family. Someone once wanted to divide Li's property through legal means, but Li's individuals did not own the property. Each generation had only one heir, and the so-called heirs were deprived of the right to own private property, making those people futile and become a joke in society!

The fourth article of the family rules of the Li family is also very distinctive. It is written that "All direct members of the Li family are not required to have a unified surname, but as the head of the family, they must be surnamed Li, and the head of the family must be directly related to the Li family; all direct members of the Li family must have surnames other than high school and college life. If your identity appears, you must live alone from home." This is also very interesting. In high school, several children of Li Mengze were sent out of their home by their father, using their mother's surname. They did not change their original surname until they graduated from college. More than a dozen children, without exception, were proud of being surnamed Li. As soon as they had the opportunity, they immediately regained their original identity. Although there are not so many children with the other three-class diseases, they are all sent out of the house at the inshensment of someone, and the situation is similar to that of the children of the Li family. However, in later generations, there are also people who do not want to appear under family names and live in society with the surnames of their fathers or mothers or even grandparents. It is quite chaotic. Of course, more people live by family surnames. Among the female direct members of the Li family, there is no head of the family, but their descendants still have the right to become the head of the family as long as they are willing to become members of the Li family, but some people voluntarily give up this power and become the branch of the Li family. Giving in to the arrangement of their old ancestors, and in order to experience the experience of their ancestors living alone, every direct member of the Li family left their family and lived independently at the age of 15. Until they graduated from college, many parents were reluctant to leave their children, but there was nothing they could do. Who let them live in a strange life. As for the family, God is destined to make them different; this also makes them extremely affectionate to other children who have not left home. After all, they are all children of the Li family, and it is also good to transfer their emotions (the Qi family has a deep blood relationship within the Li family. According to the statistics of a good person, every direct member of the Li family has Li Mengze. Blood relationship)! Almost every generation lives with another surname, but as the head of the family, you can only use the surname Li (otherwise, it will be a joke).

For the punishment of family members who make mistakes, regardless of the severity of their mistakes or whether they are expelled from the family, the Li family has such a provision, "All the children of the Li family have equal family rights and will not be deprived because of their parents' behavior, but they have If you give up the membership of the family, once it is done for three consecutive generations, you will lose the normal power qualification of family members forever. This is also a very important rule of the Li family. Even if they commit a crime, as long as they are not expelled from the family, although they will be punished, they still enjoy the normal rights of the members of the family group, and even have the possibility of becoming the head of the family. Their children, like others, have equal family lines. The power of members; even if the family is expelled, their children are still direct members of the Li family, with the same power as other direct members. It is said that this is called "no crime, no disaster is as good as the next generation". It is said that the son of a member expelled from the family once succeeded to the head of the family. Even if three generations have made mistakes in a row, the fourth generation is still a direct member of the Li family, but this has never happened. However, Li is merciless about refusing to recognize the members of the family. Once they have exercised a certain power for three consecutive generations, the family will automatically deprive the family members of this line of power. After that, they can become a collateral line of the family or completely break away from the family. Perhaps it is human kindness. Maybe as a member of the Li family, the ** power is too great. There has never been the phenomenon of two consecutive generations announcing that they are not bound by the rules of the Li family. This family rule also shows the tolerance of the Li family. They never leave those who make mistakes. Even if contemporary people are expelled from the family, their Children are still valued by the family.

It is so stipulated for the core of family members and their patriarchs. "Family members, who have the ability, must work for the interests of the family, for the benefit of all members of the family and the future, and form a core management. The core management does not enjoy special rights; the head of the family must serve the interests of the family and do not own the family property. Private inheritance power, but with full management rights, assisted by the core management and supervised by them, must take care of the interests of the whole family and do their duty for the growth of the next generation of the family. The core members and head of the Li family are laborious people. Except for the head of the family who has some special power, everyone else is no different from ordinary members. This is to prevent individuals from seeking personal gain. Their behavior is monitored by the whole family. They have to seek benefits for the whole family, and the pressure is very high. In particular, the head of the family is more responsible. He is the core and most tired person in the whole family. He is eye-catching by the world, but he suffers. The head of the family is the most unpopular position in the Li family. There have been many cases of refusing to be the patriarch, but most family heads take the initiative to take on this important task, but it is rare to compete for the head of the family. Among the successive heads of the Li family, there were once people who were willing to give up the power of normal people for the sake of "family interests", violated the laws of the country, became "sinners", and even been severely punished by the judicial organs. However, the Li family has never given up the "family head" and someone came out to replace the position of head of the family. What the opponents have to admire is that Li had two consecutive family leaders spent the rest of their lives in prison, and they were of the same generation! Under normal circumstances, the head of the family is passed down from generation to generation, but in an emergency, there are also contemporaries who have served successively. Of course, if the head of the family seriously violates the family regulations, the punishment will also be extremely severe. Although he will not be expelled from the family, he will not be in contact with outsiders for life and will live alone!

There are not many clan rules of the Li family, and the regulations are not very detailed, leaving relatively large independent power to future generations. Of course, it also leaves more room for the family heads of all dynasties. "You can't do it. You have to leave some for future generations." Li Mengze is so to a few. The unsatisfied woman said, why? The family is not a cage. It is a safe haven for the whole family and a place where they live in a dangerous world. There is no need to make them work so hard. You can't force future generations to have no place to stand! Yes, as long as they can ensure that they can survive for a long time and will not be bullied. As parents, is there any other requirement? Therefore, such a family rule with Chinese characteristics and the unique charm of the Li family came out like this. Although it is not very complete, "almost", all the people who see it can't laugh and cry!