309. Raising a child at the age of 100, long worry ninety-nine
In Wu Jinhan's narration, Yuxi and others understood what happened.
In fact, this matter is not complicated. Wu Xiulin married her classmates. Both of them graduated from high school, but the conditions of the man's family were not good, so Wu Jinhan and his wife opposed this at the beginning.
But the daughter is in love with this family, and the old couple has no choice but to agree. Fortunately, the man's family is simple, with parents and a sister, but her sister is married, so she thought that it would be easier for her daughter to get married than in the Mo family.
The simpler it is, the more troublesome it is. The disparity between the two conditions will inevitably lead to contradictions in life.
"You just give your aunt the clothes and shoes your aunt wear.
She took the clothes for her daughter home without her consent.
Then again, these are not worth much money. Just give it, but your uncle's salary has been given to his mother, and your aunt has to pay for living expenses, which is a little unspeakable.
A few days ago, your aunt and mother-in-law got sick. The old man has a rural household registration, and there is no medical treatment and can't be reimbursed. Your sister's usual salary pays part of the living expenses, and the rest is spent on clothing and rouge gouache.
As a result, the old lady was admitted to the hospital and found that she had no money to use it. This did not pay the hospitalization fee with your uncle's salary.
I didn't think that there was not a penny left left, and she gave it all to her daughter. Do you think your aunt can be angry? Didn't you quarrel with her eldest aunt? The problem is that your uncle also helped her sister count your aunt, so she went back to her mother's house to complain..."
Yuxi doesn't think it's all small things, and there are no small things to say about family affairs. If this matter is really not handled well, it's not just a matter of anger, but also the possibility of divorce.
pat Mo Xiulin's thigh, "Aunt Lin, you have to deal with this matter well. If you can't correct it, you will be angry all your life.
The key is my uncle's attitude. It's too much. Is her sister right? I can't blame you all. It's understandable to help my sister, but it's wrong not to say anything about using my brother's salary.
The key to the problem is to ask your husband to have a correct attitude and position. You can't just bully people with your eyes open. If you don't realize your mistakes, just divorce. Such people will get sick in the future.
If you have a good attitude and realize what the problem is, why don't you just move out and rent a house without a house?
You usually go there or hire an aunt to take care of it. You can take care of your uncle's salary by yourself. What's wrong with her mother? You are husband and wife. Since the husband and wife are the same, the money should also be in your control.
Don't think that you don't care if he has less salary. No matter how much money you have, it's a matter of attitude.
And little grandma, don't help them get money this time. I know you feel sorry for your daughter, but this is a family matter. It really doesn't have much to do with money. Let them go out and borrow it. Pay it back slowly. If there is no money, he will know how sad it is without money..."
Wu Jinhan really planned to pay for his daughter at the beginning. He couldn't watch the child in trouble.
But let Yuxi say this, and her heart is full of life. What the child said makes sense. If she can help her daughter for a while, she can't help her for a lifetime. What will she do when they are old?
sighed, "Xiu Lin, have you heard Yu Xi's words? It seems that your mother can't take money to solve everything for you. There are some things that you should face.
Mom thought that you two were not suitable at the beginning. You had to marry this man. Now you should understand, right? You two are in free love, and there should be no problem in communication between the two.
Go back and have a good talk with him. If you can, you can have a good life. If you can't, I will have a good life as soon as possible.
If you two's affairs are not solved well, it will be troublesome in the future. There is no reason for family affairs. You have to be strong.
Mom is just your two daughters. In fact, no one is having a good time. Mom is worried about this. Don't let your father know about this.
According to his temper, he has to say that they have to be punished, and now the situation at home does not allow him to be distracted. You should deal with it first and tell your mother if you have any problems.
Mo Xiulin was a little angry and couldn't go back. Yu Xi patted her hand with a smile.
"Auntie, anger can't solve any problems. Hurry up and go home to deal with your family's affairs. You two talk calmly and say your own thoughts. It's up to you how to do it.
How to live? No one can replace you. You can go back and solve the problem. If it really doesn't work, you can go out and rent a house to live in.
Mo Xiulin frowned, "That house is still divided by our unit. Why should I move out? I have to find a way to rent a house for my mother-in-law.
Mom, I'll go back first. The three of you are here to accompany your little grandma. If there is any good news, I'll let you know when I come back.
Mo Xiulin packed up her things and left first. Wu Jinhan sighed, "Alas, when the child was young, I looked forward to them growing up. When I grew up, I have to worry about getting married. It's really right to raise my child at the age of ninety-nine."
Bai Haoran scratched his head, "Little grandma, in fact, you can rest assured to let Aunt Lin deal with it. If you don't let go, the other party will think that you are their support.
Who doesn't want to pay for it? In the future, you won't pay a penny. When you go back and forth, you can just bring some small gifts.
The money is saved for my aunt as private money. The two really can't live together. With this money, Aunt Lin can live a better life.
Bai Haoran's words woke up the dreamer. Wu Jinhan secretly praised in his heart. Why didn't she have many children to see it thoroughly at such an old age? Over the years, she has been living in the dog's stomach.
The chagrin expression on her face was shown by Wu Lei.
"Grandma, this old man doesn't often say that bystanders are fans of the authorities. We are just not in this matter, so we can make a correct judgment on this matter objectively.
You are different. Auntie is the flesh of your heart. There is a little wind blowing, and you are also upset. It hasn't been a long time. You will be led away by these things in their family. This is the so-called worry, but you should also think about it in the future..."
Wu Jinhan really admires these three children in his heart. His nephew is really blessed enough to know such three powerful children. If he grows up, it will definitely not be an ordinary role.
"Alas, little grandma, I will do what you say in the future, and I won't interfere in their family's affairs.
Cer, are you going to participate in the game in the afternoon? Do you have any confidence?
The husband asked his nephew to bring the three children back. Everyone in the family was well known, but she didn't see that these children still had this kind of ability. In a few decades, who dared to say that she could gamble. RS