Chapter 164 Chen Shiwen's bitterness

No matter which play or novel, Prince Charming's entrance is always full of fierce applause and unrestrained screams, and of course, young girls spare no effort to wince each other. Xia Yufeng is not Prince Charming, but at least he is the protagonist of tonight's party. Therefore, whether the guests present were really frustrated or barely perfunctory due to their cultivation, they welcomed the face with warm applause under Xiao Chan's excited introduction.

Because this so-called 'celebration banquet' organized by someone, it's not just the party of the top ten in Beijing that Qu Ya told Xia Yufeng last night. There are no more than 50 or 60 people in front of us, including the top 20, top 30, and even many strange young men and women who have never seen at all. This looks more like a large theme party.

For many friends or prospective friends who have met or have never met, Xia Yufeng, who is not sociable or even a little repulsive, who is not sociable, although a thousand people are not excited, they always welcome each other with a smiley face pretending to greet each other.

According to Xiao Chan's introduction, in addition to the contestants of the 'Qingfeng Cup', these are mostly her friends, and the children of not ministers are the children of the boss of a large enterprise. Therefore, this clink is extremely careful, as frightened as the Red Party members attending the Kuomintang banquet. This also made Xia Yufeng very curious about Xiao Chan's identity, but Xiao Chan did not take the initiative to say, and Xia Yufeng was not easy to ask.

Xia Yufeng, who was already drunk, felt heavy after drinking this round. He went to the toilet and washed his face with cold water. This was better, but he still felt tired.

I took a glass of red wine and walked to the roof of the open-air building alone. Whether it's quiet or sober, as long as you can leave the chaotic place.

As soon as he climbed to the roof, Xia Yufeng caught a glimpse of a familiar figure, bending his back to himself and supporting his hands on the railing.

"Why is it cool to run here alone?" Xia Yufeng put the wine glass on the window sill, found a cigarette box and walked towards him, leaned against him and handed him a cigarette.

"Nothing, but I'm not in a good mood." Chen Shiwen just thought about something. Xia Yufeng walked into his side and handed him a cigarette to realize it. He took over the smoke and said.

"What's the matter, because of feelings?" Xia Yufeng turned his head and looked at him and asked tentatively. In addition to this reason, Xia Yufeng really can't think of anything else to make Chen Shiwen, who has just won the big season, so unhappy.

"Ha ha, you can still see it. That's right, because of feelings. Chen Shiwen, who was restrained, said with a wry smile with an awkward look.

After smoking a cigarette, Chen Shiwen turned his head and looked at Xia Yufeng and said, "We have often quarreled recently. Sometimes we quarrel endlessly because of a little sesame. She has been complaining that I am not sensible, immature and not loving her enough. In fact, she misunderstood me. I have been working hard as she hoped, but because of my personality, I don't know how to express many things, or I can't fully express them, including my love for her.

When Chen Shiwen said this, he shrugged his shoulders helplessly and smiled bitterly. After taking a sip of smoke, he exhaled a big smoke ring and said, "Your personality really needs to be changed. Now you are all stars. In the future, you have to stand in front of the stage to deal with the media and fans. You are lukewarm and silent, and it is easy to be put on airs. This is not a small impact on you.

Xia Yufeng paused and continued, "As for your girlfriend, I think first of all, we are men. If we are men, we should take the initiative to take this mistake after quarreling with your girlfriend or not."

"People are angry, their heads are very congested, and everything is caused by him to reason. So you have to lower your posture, lead the mistake, let the contradiction pause and ease, wait until each other's anger subsided, and return to the state of rational thinking. At this time, you don't have to spit to explain to her for a long time. When the context of the matter calms down, she will naturally think about it carefully. In this way, it is easy to distinguish what's going on and who is right and who is wrong.

"You're right when she figured it out. It's her fault. If she can't put down the air to apologize to you, but she will deeply feel that your initiative to admit your mistake is selfless love for her. If you encounter this situation in the future, you won't be so wayward. If she realizes her mistake and takes the initiative to admit it to you, then the tolerance and doting love of your big man is a feeling for her and the accumulation of her growth.

Xia Yufeng took a sip of smoke and looked at Chen Shiwen in front of him like a student listening to the teacher's lecture carefully. He stared at himself and continued, "You should be clear that a girl with a strong personality is not much stronger than a girl with a gentle personality, so don't ignore her. Always care and capture her feelings. Weak girls are easy to get hurt, but they will recover after a day or two of stewing chicken soup or something. However, once this kind of girl with a strong personality is injured, she absolutely needs to go to the hospital and may not be cured even if she lies in the first half of the year.

When Chen Shiwen heard Xia Yufeng's metaphor, he couldn't help grinning and laughing. Xia Yufeng quickly interrupted: "Don't laugh. If you don't believe it, you can try it. In addition, girls with strong personalities like your girlfriends have much higher self-esteem than ordinary girls, and their pursuit and self-motivation must also be very strong, so as boyfriends of such girls, they are also under great pressure, especially in today's society. I can fully understand your feelings, but to be honest, your girlfriend said that you are ignorant and immature, and you don't want to refute it. Young people are frivolous, impetuous, playful and ignorant, which is understandable, immature, and ignorant, let's slowly change. The important thing is that you have to realize this."

Chen Shiwen nodded, lowered his head and thought for a moment. He looked up at Xia Yufeng and said, "I really benefited a lot from your story. Now I also feel that I did not do well enough in many places, especially sometimes for some of her accusations. When I get angry, I directly fight against her, whether right or wrong. After the quarrel, I rarely took the initiative to admit my mistake, and I didn't admit it in time. What's more, I held my breath and still ignored her. Now it seems that I really didn't do well enough, at least one of them didn't show enough tolerance and love for a woman he loves deeply.

"Ha ha, it's good for you to be enlightened and have some insights, otherwise I would have spent so much saliva." Xia Yufeng laughed.

"Alas, Xia Yufeng, I also want to ask you how to make a girl intuitively feel her love and know that you care about her. I mean, I'm not good at expressing myself. I'm very stupid. Sometimes I want to express a meaning, but I often say something wrong. Look at this?" Chen Shiwen asked doubtfully.

"So I said, you'd better change your dull personality. It is never wrong to please girls and say sweet words, but sweet words alone are not enough. If you two have a deep emotional foundation, confirm that you have been in a relationship for a long time and even want to get married. Then this woman, compared with your daily sweet words, she prefers to see you express your love with actions, which are the most touching with some small details.

Xia Yufeng moved, squeezed her mouth, swallowed her saliva, and said slightly ** and old-fashionedly, "For example, when you go shopping hand in hand, you always stand on the side near the vehicle and let her stand on the safe side. Pay attention to some of her habits. For example, if she is afraid of the dark, then buy a low-watt, bright and weak table lamp and put it on her bedside, so that she can sleep with the lamp on without being too dazzling. Pay attention to the weather forecast every night. If it rains tomorrow, prepare an umbrella for her in advance and put it in her bag. If she is not around, send a short notice to her. You should remember her eating habits, what she likes to eat, how to eat, hobbies, what she likes to play, and what she sees.

"In addition, it is best to have a good relationship with her friends, especially her best friends. Sometimes she may not be convenient or willing to tell you about many things, so you can learn about it through her friends at this time. For the most obvious example, when a woman comes to her period every month, her mood will be more anxious and irritable than usual. If she has dysmenorrhea, her mood will fluctuate even more. At this time, if you can take the initiative to be more considerate of her and tolerate her than usual without her hint, then your love will be more useful than your affectionate love to her a hundred times.

"Is it so troublesome?" After hearing this, Chen Shiwen said with a bitter face.

"Trouble? Ha ha, for many people, running a listed company is far easier than running a relationship and running a marriage. Therefore, real feelings need to be managed carefully. As for this trouble, sometimes it is a beautiful experience process. Xia Yufeng looked at the distance with slightly deep eyes and said lightly.

"I see. Thank you for your words today. Really, thank you very much." Chen Shiwen nodded and said seriously to Xia Yufeng.

"Ha, don't be so polite. I mean, I have to work hard on some experience in the future. By the way, what does your girlfriend do? Is she beautiful?

"She is a nurse. In my eyes, she is the most beautiful and best girl in the world. She is also the person I want to take care of and accompany her the most in my life." When Chen Shiwen said this, a woman named Liu Yao came to his mind, and his eyes couldn't help showing a strong sense of happiness.

PS: L, please believe that my targeted goal is C's sincere awareness. I wish you an early success and look forward to receiving your wedding invitation.