Chapter 130 The Cost of Growth
In August 22, the Li family compound scattered eight little eagles one after another. This batch of eight children has touched the hearts of men and women. In August of the following year, the second batch of six children was also released. Now, all those who could be scattered were released, leaving only four youngest sons who were less than ten years old. From 18 children to 10 children, and finally to 4 children, the change is so huge that even the staff in the compound feel unaccustomed. For the first time, there are more children of the staff than the main children. Several security guards who usually pick up and drop off the children seem to have no energy, and there will never be a large number of children around him. They shouted "Uncle, uncle..." which made many people unable to accept it all at once! At this time, it is the mothers who are more worried, whether they are their own or not, are equally worried. Which of these children has not been hugged by them, which has not been teased by them, the first seven mothers, which of the children have not eaten their NAI water, so, women, whether they have a job, and I don't have a job, and I care about these children in my heart. Everyone wants to see them, cook for them, tamp the quilt for them, think about whether they are used to their living habits, whether they have been bullied, and no one doesn't blame their cruel father! Li Mengze is also reluctant to give up the children. Although he doesn't like to hold children, the obedient appearance of the little guys is really attractive. What's more, these are all his children. More than a dozen children, large and small, feel comfortable to look at. But he must let the children out. If he doesn't experience the wind and rain, he can't grow into a big tree. If he doesn't experience hardships, he can't become a talent. The hardships may be less, but the wind and rain must make them feel... These children have lived together since childhood, and the family conditions are too good. This family is not a normal family. At the meeting, most families are completely different, and the family is too warm, so that they don't know the lives of ordinary people and are less aware of the dangers of society. As soon as these children are born, they determine their extraordinaryness. They are a variety of combinations of the second generation of a huge family. Not everyone can engage in the industrial management of the family, and everyone should have their own work, but once the family needs it, everyone must contribute to the continuation of the family. Now they can get along well with each other, and their brothers and sisters are humble, but there is no guarantee that they can always be so. They must be exposed to the multifaceted nature of society, so that each of them has their own favorite things, so that they can avoid possible family disputes and even internal conflicts! They are a new generation. They must have their own friends, playmates, lovers, and have their own lives, which will constitute an effective support for the family, and only old friends are more reliable. Since ancient times, the king has been so lonely." That's because he has no friends, and no one has really got along with him since he was a child. "Wealth is no more than three generations", that is because the family is not prepared to endure hardships, forget the hardships they have suffered, and do not conduct comprehensive training for the descendants of the family. Li Mengze does not believe in evil. He is very selfish and will never allow his industrial empire to be easily destroyed, so he resolutely sends his children out of the house despite the opposition of women. They can make mistakes, go astray, and fail, but they must grow up. Even if some children do nothing in the end, I don't hesitate to do it! Children can make mistakes and suffer hardships, but as long as he can return to the courtyard completely, he will never regret it!
Since the children left the house, whether it is a woman or Li Mengze, they have been uneasy and don't know if the children can get used to it. At first, the children were obviously not used to it. They were used to living in groups, and many of their peers lived together. Now they suddenly have to live alone, not only cooking by themselves, but also washing clothes by themselves. They have to lock the door when leaving home, and have to go to class alone. All aspects of life are completely different from before, especially a When people live there, they feel particularly lonely at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, especially in the dead of night.
"Mom, I miss you. The food is not delicious at all. The rice is burnt, and the food is so salty..."
"Next time you stir-fry, put less salt..."
"Mom, do you miss me, I miss you, is Dad at home, brothers..."
"Silly child, of course mom misses the baby..."
"Mom, the teacher can't understand the lecture..."
"Take your time..."
"Mom, when will you come to see me? I can't sleep at night..."
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"Mom, I'm fighting again... But don't worry, I'm fine..."
"Mom, I like a girl..."
"Mom, you won't blame me, will you..."
The little guys can talk for half an hour as soon as they call. They just don't hang up the phone. The trivial things are sent to the house, which makes mothers feel sad and funny. Sometimes some of the questions they raise make them unexpected at all. Some problems that don't become theirs. It's a big problem. However, with the passage of time, these childish problems have become less and less, fewer phone calls are made, and each call time is getting shorter and shorter, which makes mothers feel a little disappointed and some comfort. Women are worried about their children. Several mothers who don't work visit them in private, teach them many years of life experience, cook a meal for them, fold quilts for them, see what's missing in their cabinets, and buy a few clothes for them... These children outside attract a lot of mothers. Attention. Of course, their fathers are not relaxed. He is not only worried about the safety of the children, but also does not want them to find that their family is sheltering them and "persuading" the masters to guide them one by one... The ideological communication between the Li family compound and the children is a very important aspect. Every child is required to report the important things that happened. Come on, this is the problem that adults are most concerned about.
Every child will encounter different problems. They live alone when they are young, lack social experience, and have a comfortable big family life when they are young. They are born with arrogance, which makes them repeatedly have problems in their interactions with their peers. They are rich, generous and easy-going, which makes the followers around them become chased by girls. Goals; good academic performance and extraordinary skills make them the focus of attention. Every child, almost every semester, has to report several major "events" to the family, such as fighting, love, lovelorn and other problems. By the time of 24 years, three of the first children who left the compound had stolen jinguo. They dawdly told their parents about the problems they encountered, almost It was not reported until a few days after the incident, which made their mothers laugh and cry. While being serious about family traditions, they persuaded them in order to punish them. Generally speaking, the children's performance is satisfactory, similar to the information they get from the side; and the change of children's thinking is the most important. They all realize that their current life is different from their original life. They realize that there are all kinds of people in society, such as good people, bad people, rich people, poor people, kind and ugly... They have also suffered a lot of things, not because they are the children of the Li family, such as being cheated and being stolen. , I had an argument with my classmates. More importantly, they met many new classmates in the city where they live, made some friends, and were familiar with the special living habits of many places!
Sima Yikang is a representative of the brothers. He has fought, lost love, and was almost robbed of his virginity, and the change of his mind is a portrayal of his brothers, which is the most satisfying place for mothers and fathers. Since the summer vacation of the first year, most of these children have not stayed at home, but have traveled, or traveled around the mountains and rivers to increase their knowledge, or visit famous mountains and ancient places to increase their social knowledge and fully complete the tasks assigned by their parents. They are gradually getting used to a person's life, and even no longer homesick, which makes adults happy and frustrated! Through the children's mouths, they know what the society thinks of the Li family and their views on fairies and their industries... Children have gradually differentiated, and their hobbies are different. Some like philosophy, some like physics, some like electronics, and some like medicine... By June 25, the college entrance examination In the end, six of the schools for which eight children have applied for are in B Beijing, one in Shanghai, and the other has applied for a university in Anhui, which can be said to be both centralized and scattered.
According to the plan, the eldest brother Renkang went to Zhengzhou. As the eldest son, Li Mengze hoped that he could live in his hometown for a period of time. After all, Zhengzhou was the capital of his hometown. The second brother Yikang went to the northeast port city of Dalian, hoping that he could learn something from this coastal city. Lao San Likang was also sent to the coastal city, and Qingdao was also There should be the figure of the children of the Li family; Lao Si Zhikang was sent to the mountain city of Chongqing. This is the most important city in the southwest has always been one of the areas with less influence of fairies. Such a big place, they should pay attention to; Lao Wu Dekang was also sent to the northeast. It was too cold in the northeast, so he went to Shenyang under compromise; the Six Dynasties in Nanjing. Land, under the stone city, I don't know what can be brought to the Li family, so I put Wenkang here. Shanghai has always been their unsatisfied place, but in such an important place, how can they give up with broad minds and insert Lao Qi Xiaokang in the order; Lao Ba Xiankang was placed in Kunming, the spring city. This is the most southwestern provincial capital of China. The principle of "exile" is that two children can't be in the same city. Try to go to more important cities. There are many big cities in China, and there are many more important ones. Some places place "exile people". No, Lao Jiu Yuzhu was placed in Wuhan, and Lao Shi Xuemei went to G State. Why should they be placed in these two? The city is entirely because of someone's selfishness; Old Eleven Junkang went to Changsha, and his twin brother Xiukang went to Xi'an; Old Thirteen Jiakang was in Shenzhen, and Old Fourteen was accidentally selected to be placed in Jinan; this was all planned. Although Li Mengze is lazy, he still attaches great importance to this matter, and the four have not yet begun. The place where the middle son will go has also been decided for a long time. Zikang will go to Chengdu in the future, Bokang will go to Lanzhou, and Yongkang will go to Taiyuan when he grows up. Shikang will definitely live in Nanchang for a period of time. Of course, the parties concerned do not know at all.
The second group of six children who left home were in a similar situation to that of their brothers, but the two girls caused trouble. As soon as they arrived at the place where they lived, they threatened to do something if someone didn't visit them "immediately". Originally, in order to take care of them conveniently, the family put one of the two sisters in Wuhan and the other in G State. The reason why they chose these two cities is that the Li family has considerable "power" in these two cities, which is convenient to take care of them under special circumstances. Of course, the girls know these situations. Yuzhu is in Wuhan, and everyone knows the great prestige of Donglin Group. If you want to find your grandfather Lin Mingtang, you can have three meals a day, and Donglin Electronics is already a large-scale military electronics company. If she reports Lin Yongqi's name, she can immediately attract the attention of security guards. Xuemei is not ambiguous. If you go to find Grandpa Chen Xiaochong and grandma's custodian will receive you warmly. What's more, they also have an aunt in G state. These two girls have been loved by their father since they were young. Although seeing their father is still like a mouse seeing a cat, they all know that this cat is not scary at all. As long as it is not too much, it will be "all right". They think it should be okay to make such a "exceed" request. After all, "girls, one person is so afraid". They have to complain to their mothers almost every day, which makes them stunned. They have no choice but to comfort and take care of them in person. On average, several mothers who are idle at home have two every year. How long has it been for my daughter to stay with her for half a month? Four mothers, that is, two months a year, are traveling to accompany them to study, which has exhausted several mothers and almost become nannies. For this reason, during the winter vacation of the first year of high school, both of them were ashamed by their little brothers, because the little guys happened to be there when they were scolded by their father. But there was nothing they could do. In the end, the failed father finally put his two daughters in a city, "Let's be closer to home." So, from the second year of high school, Yuzhu and The Xuemei sisters rented a house, but they didn't go to the same school (this is someone's last bottom line). Relatively speaking, the two daughters make the adults worry more, which makes someone who spoiled his daughter very face very bad. This is not over. When it comes to the college entrance examination, the two of them want to go to Beijing. Fortunately, what gratulates his father is that their academic performance is not as sloppy, although they are not as good as their brothers. Brothers, but it's not much different. One entered B Beijing Normal University, and the other also entered B Beijing Normal University!
The rest of the children are still peaceful. In addition to making some things that make people laugh and cry, they are all okay. "I didn't lose my face", which is someone's original words. Since the first batch of children left the compound, the hearts of women in the compound have been scattered. Everyone is remembering the children who are far away from home. Li Mengze knows this best, which can be felt from the women's eyes and their physical movements. Seeing the appearance of women, Li Mengze was very distressed. Which mother did not love his children, but he left them in the big dyeing jar of society for his own selfishness and the so-called family interests. For this reason, he felt that he could not care about women and treated them more warmly. As long as nothing big things happened in the company, he Try to stay with everyone, go shopping with them, and send women to work. He has done everything a man can do! Women are constantly involved with children, but they do not ignore the caress of men. In fact, they also know that the birds in cages can't stand the cold test of nature, and the flowers in the greenhouse can't stand the frequent blowing of wind and rain. Only when children accept the training of society can they really grow up. When the children were no longer so homesick and no longer crying and tearing, they were finally relieved. As long as they are willing to contact the society, and as long as they can persevere in changing their living habits, then they will succeed more than half. If this step is successful, they can find their own position in their future personal life and hope to become a qualified successor to the family.
A person's growth cannot be smooth sailing. No matter himself or his parents and relatives, he has to pay the price. No matter how much money you have, no matter how much talent you have, no matter how much power you have, you can't avoid this life arrangement - the fateful arrangement!